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I once worked in an apartment building New York City where I met this Jewish gentleman who always requested that we press the elevator button for him and open his apartment door because if he did it it would mean that he had worked and he was sinning. Is this an official belief Jewish community or is it a misunderstanding on this person's part?
My post was meant as an honest inquiry and wasn't meant in any way as criticism. It's unfortunate that it be taken that way since doing so stifles any other questions that might be asked. Perhaps no questions at all should be asked. This way no offense will be taken.
Whoa! That is exactly the way I took your original question. It was a good question. I've seen a lot of your posts and respect your attitude and perspective as well as your knowledge. I've learned a good deal from them. I had a problem with answers you received, not with your original question.
I will end with a very wise ancient hebrew saying which I apologize in advance for translating it awkwardly, but I'm sure you'll see the point, and that's what really matters;
"whatever one rejects in others, he is actually rejecting in his own self"
That's why, whenever I fell i begin to criticize something, I look inside to see where I can see it in me and don't like having it deep inside!
I guess I was reacting to the above words which seem to imply that. But then again I might be wrong. In any case thanks for the info. I am learning many things myself.
My post was meant as an honest inquiry and wasn't meant in any way as criticism. It's unfortunate that it be taken that way since doing so stifles any other questions that might be asked. Perhaps no questions at all should be asked. This way no offense will be taken.
Actually I understand what you mean though... I also like to ask questions, especially questions about Christianity, but I have stopped doing that. I just had my feelings hurt so many times. Certain people would attack me, leave nasty negative comments on my posts, etc. It just wasn't worth it. And it's too bad, because I too am sinerely interested in Christian beliefs, and not trying to be a smarta** or whatever.
Actually I understand what you mean though... I also like to ask questions, especially questions about Christianity, but I have stopped doing that. I just had my feelings hurt so many times. Certain people would attack me, leave nasty negative comments on my posts, etc. It just wasn't worth it. And it's too bad, because I too am sinerely interested in Christian beliefs, and not trying to be a smarta** or whatever.
WEll you can feel free to ask me. I won't feel offended. If not here you can email me at
BTW
Everything going well with the pregnancy?
How many more months until the little one arrives?
May God bless and be with him always as well as with yourself and your family.
Thanks Starman... I may just take you up on that. In any event, I'll add your email to our address book so my husband can send you something when our baby is born!
I'm due on June 16, so I have about 8 weeks left. However, I've been feeling quite sick and extra tired lately, and this morning the doctor confirmed that I have the beginnings of preeclampsia. So far I am all right, but I have to take it easy and be monitored very closely. If the preeclampsia progresses, I will have to have the baby early... they will either induce labour or do a c section. The doctor is hoping though that I will be able to hang on for at least another 3 weeks. But if I suddenly disappear from the forum, you'll know I'm probably having the baby!
My post was meant as an honest inquiry and wasn't meant in any way as criticism. It's unfortunate that it be taken that way since doing so stifles any other questions that might be asked. Perhaps no questions at all should be asked. This way no offense will be taken.
That's exactly how I understood your original question - i've never doubted your sincere interest, didn't think you were criticizing
Millie
My post was meant as an honest inquiry and wasn't meant in any way as criticism. It's unfortunate that it be taken that way since doing so stifles any other questions that might be asked. Perhaps no questions at all should be asked. This way no offense will be taken.
Geez, I hope that wasn't based on my first post - I was referring to Fred's answer not your question. If this is the case I apologize for any confusion.