| A good way to find out is to have a PO Box or address of a friend or family member with a different last name than yours... a PO Box that could get mail in a company name has worked for me in the past... perhaps in another town, but then send in an inquirey to him asking about his feedback on you and your work habits... You may have to write something up that you sign as if it were giving a new potential employer permission to investigate your background... You should be able to find something on line or at an office supply store along these lines... but anyways, when you get the feedback from him, you will have your answer... if he is spreading lies about you, you then might have a good legal case against him. This PO box method worked for me when I wanted to find out what professors had written about me in forms where I had to waive my rights to see their reccomendations... They say it is hard to fly with the eagles when you work with turkeys... Perhaps the fact that you did work with this guy makes others who know him nervous about you? |