If she disbelieves in all the Attributes of Allaah, as shias do, and it is known, but ignored, and if she curses and hates most of the Companions of Rasuulullaah -sAaws- and she is waiting for Ad-Dajjal to appear as Mahdi and follow Him, as shias do, and Allaah knows best, then how can you love her if you are sunni and you love Allaah and Rasuul -sAaws?
On the other hand, if she is ignorant, and seems to be sincerely in wanting to follow the true Islam without attaching herself to what her parents were upon, then please for the sake of Allaah save her and marry her.
It depends on the case, and Allaah knows everything. A shia can be muslim or kafir, and a sunni can be muslim or kafir. What we are to Allaah matters. Make solaah al-istikhaarah first:
http://saowta.spaces.live.com/blog/c...F1FE!564.entry
Allaahu akbar. May Allaah cause children of muslims become more guided than their parents within their marriages.
According to Rasuulullaah(sAaws) the ummah divides in 73 different sects, which are all in The Fire, except one. They asked about it. He(sAaws) said they are upon what himself(sAaws) and SaHaabah(rA`a) were upon that day. So return to Islam, muslims!
AbuBakr_Fin : "Which Holy Book? Vedas, Dhammapada? Don`t pretend to have knowledge before learning your Deen, or the matter youspeak of! And which scholars are you speaking of, sheikh? It`s not about what people say, anyway, because Allaah has made it clear that that the women of ahl Al-Kitaab are Halaal (Maaidah:5)
5:5. This day are (all) things good and pure made lawful unto you. The food of the People of the Book (jews and christians) is lawful unto you and yours is lawful unto them. (Lawful unto you in marriage) are (not only) chaste women who are believers, but chaste women among the People of the Book, revealed before your time,- when ye give them their due dowers, and desire chastity, not lewdness, nor secret intrigues if any one rejects faith, fruitless is his work, and in the Hereafter he will be in the ranks of those who have lost (all spiritual good).
And after Ayatul-Kursi (in 2:256): Let there be no compulsion in religion: Truth stands out clear from Error: whoever rejects evil and believes in Allah hath grasped the most trustworthy hand-hold, that never breaks. And Allah heareth and knoweth all things.
Which evidence says against Allaah that we `make` muslims? (28:56):It is true thou wilt not be able to guide every one, whom thou lovest; but Allah guides those whom He will...
And it`s impossible to find out about them, because taqiyah (hiding their true faith) is an essential part of their innovated Deen according to their own scholars. I know this from a knowledgable, trustworthy `aalim, and it is well-known. And Allaah knows best. And reading their books and listening their misguidance may destroy your eman, so why do you advice to find out about it? When, and who from among scholars of Ahl As-Sunnah wa Al-jamaàh ever adviced this. WAllaahi your advice is ignorant, and you need to rearl Islam. Imam Ahmad -may Allaah have mercy upon him- said about (in `Usuul As-Sunnah`) that Sunnah with them -the salaf `ulama- "is disassociation from bid`ah, and every bid`ah, for it is is misguidance." And shiàh religion is completely an innovation, the strongest opinion is that their `ulama are kuffar, but some of them don`t know, and perhaps they are excused by Allaah. Who wants their children in the Fire, and create a Religion of compromise, hiding the Truth from their Lord, and accepting their kuffar relatives as muslims?
May Allaah curse who curses a SaHaabii, of whom Allaah -The Most Great- has been pleased with. And witnessed Himself having forgiven the people that fought in Badr, and that He is pleased with Muhaajiriin and Ansaar and whoever follow them with IHsaan... Say: `Aamiin!` May Allaah curse who curses Abu Bakr, Omar and Aisha. May Allaah curse them, who says that we must disbelieve in every Attribute by which Allaah has attributed Himself with! Who is more trustworthy than Allaah?? Don`t sacrifice your love for Allaah on an altar of love for a woman.
This was intended as an extension to my reply to `sheikh.mani`.
Aamiin, jaa Rabb.
What happens when people try to `make them muslims`, they often become `muslims`, and when it`s difficult for them, they leave the eman they we`re not sure about in the first place, and you are trapped in a marriage with a murtad and children with her. I have seen this happen. It is advisable in our times to make a written marriage condition that the possible kids are raised as muslims and given to the father if they divorce, when marrying an ahl al-kitab lady (that is not a zaniah, because that is Haraam), and never pressure them to be muslims at all, because that is also Haraam, and it is dangerous, because you won`t know a persons eman if they accept Islam due to other than Allaah, as evidence is provided earlier.