Muslim girl can marry a brahmin boy?

Ayesha,

First of all, you must convince your parents, not to disallow you from the office. Then, when, you and Mahesh are together, you can think of some options. Sit together once again with the parents to mollify them. Get the help of relatives, if they are supportive. What does your mother say?

Hi Ayesha,

If u are a true muslim and if you understood the Quran perfectly then u wouldnt have been in this dilema. dont get mislead and dont go in the path of destruction.

Reg the marriage check this link:

http://islam.about.com/od/marriage/a/interfaithmarriage.htm

The Qur'an lays out clear guidelines for marriage. One of the main traits you should look for in a potential spouse is a similarity in religious outlook. For the sake of compatibility, and the upbringing of future children, it is most recommended for a Muslim to marry another Muslim. However, in some circumstances it is permissible for a Muslim to marry a non-Muslim.

Muslim Man and Non-Muslim Woman

In general, Muslim men are not permitted to marry non-Muslim women. "Do not marry unbelieving women until they believe. A slave woman who believes is better than an unbelieving woman, even though she allures you.... Unbelievers beckon you to the Fire. But Allah beckons by His Grace to the garden of bliss and forgiveness. And He makes His signs clear to mankind, that they may receive admonition" (Qur'an 2:221).
An exception is made for Muslim men to marry chaste or pious Jewish and Christian women, who are referred to as "People of the Book." This comes from the understanding that Jews and Christians share similar religious outlooks - a belief in One God, following the commandments of Allah, a belief in revealed scripture (Books), etc. "This day are all things good and pure made lawful to you.... Lawful to you in marriage are not only chaste women who are believers, but chaste women among the People of the Book, revealed before your time, when you give them their due dowers, and desire chastity not lewdness. If any one rejects faith, fruitless is his work, and in the Hereafter he will be in the ranks of those who have lost" (Qur'an 5:5).

The children of such a union are always to be raised in the faith of Islam. This should be discussed thoroughly by the couple before they decide to marry.

Muslim Woman and Non-Muslim Man

Under no conditions is a Muslim woman permitted to marry anyone but a Muslim man. The same verse cited above (2:221) mentions, "Nor marry your girls to unbelievers until they believe. A man slave who believes is better than an unbeliever...." No exception is given for women to marry Jews and Christians, so the law stands that she may only marry a believing (Muslim) man. As head of the household, the husband provides leadership for the family. A Muslim woman does not follow the leadership of someone who does not share her faith and values.


i hope the love fever or this infatuation abt the non-muslim guy goes out of ur mind and Almighty Allah saves u frm doing the wrong

check out this link as well

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=2267&CATE=10

the brahmin boy must not marry you..it is forbidden for him too in his religion to marry a non brahmin girl..it is for the safety of the boy too..because islamic fundamentalists could go to any extent to protect their false pride

Dear Sister,
If you think you can't change your religion then why are you changing the actual values of religion,it seems you are changing religious values as per your requierments,sister who said that if you married with non muslim then you are not sinner,sure you are sinner which you cannot repent for whole life if you are in relationship...''if you think as truth you will never change your religion then the same truth is that ...if you are marrying other than muslim you are sinner'' you can change but the values will be the same.As suggestion ...if you really love that guy and want him to be with you forever here and hereafter then change him if you love him upto that instict,otherwise change yourself to another faith wich i as a muslim will never suggest you.and if he loves you to that instict then he must change himself to your faith.thats truth i can say otherwise as your understanding will grow you will find soo many conflictive occassions...it is damn sure haa miss.i married a non-muslim girl but she converted to islam ,i woked hard ...a struggle of 4 years then she convinced the truth...each and every part she understand.i did it because i wanted her in my life ..i was a knowlegable of islam she was well talented and her talents and arguments lead me to learn more to convince her and she convinced.and we are happy married couple now.my parents agreed her parents not agreed at first but after exactly 2 weeks they called and talked good and now we are in good relation ,i am everyday talking to them.it's fine as long as you are in love with each other.the main thing is you both decide wich religion you will choose to live your life,thats it.but dont keep seperate religion in marriage you will find nothing.so first go ahead with 1 religion.
Thanks.........

You called from brahmin boy side as it's his religious faith and you called muslims as fundamentalists,i can say muslims are more fundamentalists than other faiths,so the word fundamentalism itself proves that muslims are more closer to there religion.
Firstly you showed your injustice towards muslims secondly you agreed that muslims are more closer to religion............third i will tell you that go and find out why it is so.

I did not see this post before so was unable to guide you.
Please make one thing sure that religion is our identity, we are known by our names, which clearly reflect our religion, customs, and beliefs. Love to an unknown person (in your case) is an emotional feeling which makes you blind to see the reality. One should never leave his roots, for time being you would feel hurt after separation from Mahesh but once you are out of this relationship you will find that how immature you were and how much you have hurt your parents.
Being a Muslim girl you have already committed a great sin by having a relationship with non-Muslim guy, ask for forgiveness to almighty. Remember this world you are for a short period max to max 100 years, after that u have eternal life either in Heaven or hell depending on your deeds. Marrying a non-Muslim will definitely lead you to hell.

Now think on following lines:
1 if you are married and how much are you sure that you will stay happy with Mahesh for ever?
2. Do you believe you can adjust to his customs?
3. How you will get adjusted to his family. friends and relatives?
4 Do you feel you get respect when people will get to know that you left your religion?
5. If in future there is any misunderstanding between you and Mahesh and things went out of control, what would you do? who will support you?
6. No one has control over death, if Mahesh dies after few years of Marriage! what would you do with rest of your life?
7. What would happen to your children's? how would you bring them up? How would you deal with your daughter who would marry a Christan guy? And note one thing if you have daughter in future from this marriage, people would be reluctant to get her marry as your background will always have bad impression!

By continuing this relationship you are bringing curse to your family. God will never ever make you happy. Remember this.

If my prediction is correct your parents are asking you to stay with them for your marriage with a boy from your community.
It is just my prediction.

lol..that is obvious from her question..hahahaha

Dear Ayesha Mahesh,

Love is great, love is eternal. No doubt, there is the patti of religious faith on your parents' eyes. But, in the interior, they love their sweet daughter to the fullest else they wont have allowed your affair to carry this far even after knowing about your relation with a non-muslim. So, this is a positive side.
Moreover, what they are afraid of is about society. Damn with the society, your parents are not against you. So, take a step. No need of eloping. Marry Mahesh,court marriage is a good option. Then, go to your parents and seek their blessings. If they love their daughter, they shall definitely accept your noble decision. After all, your is a case of love, not lust.
But, its advisory, to have police protection lest your parents might commit something out of social liability. Dont let that happen, bcoz as per Indian Constitution, you have done nothing wrong. Have the backing of Police and act judiciously. Love was never faulty and will never be stained. Any step taken out of love will fetch to righteousness.
Dont separate. ye pyaar ki haar hogi. Get married
May Allah bless you, Lord Shiva protect you both.