Hi Champ,
About the man being the boss thing,it is more to do with role sharing.
For example the husband is responsible financially to look after his family.The woman can work but she is not obliged to share her earnings with the husband,she can keep her own money for herself.She doesnt change her name after marriage and gets to keep the money she receives as "mahr"(a set amount given by the groom to the bride on marriage) or any other money she inherits is hers alone with no obligation on her to spend it on anyone.
She has less financial obligations compared to a man as the woman is the force that builds up lives of the children,by helping them grow up to be the best they can.And by being free of financial responsibility is a huge help for her to focus on the family.
The other woman in bed issue-
http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/islam/g...-a-163427.html
We believe that the first human were Adam and then Hawwa(peace be upon them both).And we believe they were believers in the One Almighty who sent all the Prophets and Messengers from Nuh(Noah),Ibrahim(Abraham),Moosa(Moses),Iesa(Jesus ) till Muhammad(peace be upon them all).Some are mentioned in the Quran.
We believe that Books were revealed to them and we believe that Muhammad (pbuh)is the last and final Messenger and Prophet,that the Quran is the final revelation, which includes many lessons similar to the Bibles and the Torah.
Regarding the beginning,we believe that the Almighty created everything and that to Him will be our final return.
Each human and jinn has free will to choose between belief and disbelief.The Quran mentions many verses regarding signs of the Almighty,about how this universe is and how humans are created and how living things live and die etc and asks us how can we not believe after having seen the signs.
We believe that upon death each person is in an intermediate stage (barzakh) and that we will remain there until the final hour comes.That is the time when all things on this earth will perish and everyone will be resurrected.
Then we will be judged by the Most merciful.
What we do in this world will be held accountable on the Day of judgement and each will recieve his due in good or bad.In the end some will be in Heaven while the others in Hell.
And yes Champ,It is a lot of work in that each and everything we do is recorded and we are answerable to all that we do on this earth.To try to do the best we can until our death arrives we try to live as the best a muslim can be.
A muslim is advised to always be ready for death because it is an unknown thing.