I am considering getting a Facebook. I once heard a story about someone who had a facebook and (I don't remember all the details) but someone found her contact info and she was raped (I'm not sure if the story is even true). Is there anything I should consider before getting one? Is anyone able to see my profile? What are some negative and/or positive qualities about it? Are you able to delete it once you have it?

Thanks in advance for responding!

zippit

I was skeptical like you and after Myspace made these sites look like a Hook-up site i was sure I didnt need it.
After getting some advise here I went ahead and opened an account and found one of my best friends from 8th grade,we are talking and setting up a weekend to see eachother so i love it. heres the advise i was given
myspace is like a singles bar where as
facebook is like a family reunion

morgaine300

And why exactly can't someone use Facebook as a singles bar?

Unfortunately Facebook has a big giant thing on the home page where you can sign up, but makes it difficult to actually find any information about the place so that you know what you're getting into. One of the many reasons I don't want anything to do with it.

However, I've been told you can use an ID to identify yourself and that you can make yourself private. Anyone can get raped. But having it be someone online means someone allowed private info about themselves to be given out to strangers. Just keep yourself private.

zippit

all your info is kept private until you confirm someone as a friend,the thing with FB is you can post something that "on you'r mind" for example theres was post with pictures of halloween ect.and everyone in your circle can comment.And you can send p.m.;s if you want.
The reason it helped me was I forgot my friend went by his middle name so when I saw his picture I knew it was him.

RedHead4991

Hmmm. I had to read this article for school lsat year. Let me know your thought:
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/10/26/ma...26lives-t.html

zippit

[quote=RedHead4991;2064814]. Let me know your thought:
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Thats just the point im trying to make.
like I always say Keep It Real!!
when you make your account dont try to invent friends,it is a great site to stay in touch with family members and people you REALLY know.I get friend request all the time from people I sort of knew or had "A" class with in high school and I just dont accept.
If you only had one or two friends in high school chances are your not going to have a huge thriving FB account and thats cool,thats REAL.

RedHead4991

zippit: Your totally right! It's just that I know with my friends that have Facebook, they all wanna have tonz of friends, so they just go and freidn EVERYONE! It all comes down to peer pressure...

cmeeks

There are risk involved with social networking sites as with everything we do. there are also precautions that one can take to mediate these risk. You should come to a social networking site with knowledge of the risk and a plan or an idea of what benefits you want to gain. Start slowly, be aware and enjoy.

shazamataz

Basic rule: Don't add anyone to your friends list who you do not know.

Even if you do add people who are only acquaintances you can put restrictions on certain people.

So for example if I added someone who I had met out at a bar I would keep my information private from them but all my family and close friends I keep open so they can see everything.

You don't even have to use a photo of yourself on there.
You can use a fake name if you like too and just tell your friends to search for that fake name and add you