[crazy_26]

Okay So.. Where to start.. I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone,
But I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself,
Including the things you might be ashamed of,
Love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone,
But still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.. Basically I'm in love.. but he moved away and now lives hudreds of miles away.. we still talk a lot and I get butterflies when he texts me but he doesn't know if he'll be moving back.. so my problem is.. I don't know whether to give up which I know would be the hardest thing ever.. or to wait.. the longer I wait the more in love I fall with him.. I want him so badly.. I just don't know what to do :'[

[ironhide262]

In the context of a relationship love should be a two way street. Don't wait on anyone who does not want or can't be with you regardless of how much you love them.
If you can't be together then yes, move on... find someone that can.

[SychinLegacy]

The best definition I ever saw I found a website a while ago while searching for answers to help me through my own painful breakup.

"Love is not a feeling, it is an action"

Love is the acts you do and the things you sacrifice to make your partner happy, no matter what it costs you. I don't know if this will help you but it gave me a whole new perspective on my situation.

[O_Troubles]

Ask him you can't wait forever how old are you and him can he move back? Ask him what he sees in the future and what he will actually do . If he's moving on then you should to you can always date when he does move back but until then unless its serious don't waste your days

[talaniman]

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...lp-522448.html

First thing you have to do is determine whether you are pregnant, or not. Then go from there.

Next since I know nothing of your ages, or situation, I can only guess as to why he may never come back, and that's another issue altogether. But its up to both partners to define the relationship, and decide which way you want to go with it. If its love, and not just a strong attraction, then you work together. If its not, you will have to adjust. I think love is more than just a feeling, as over time, when the butterflies fade, and the knees are not so weak, and reality has to be dealt with, then love is about working together, and GROWING together.

Your first order of business is to handle your business, and see if your pregnant, as feelings for now feel great, but reality has to be dealt with first.

Love hurts an awful lot when its not returned, and that's also a reality. Thats why its often best that no matter how you feel about another, you should love yourself, and do whats best for you.