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| Originally Posted by Mrsilly She doesn't have a green card yet and in fact I know she is starting another labor certification process with her current employer and trying to start a petition under the I-360 form which is for abuse women. This creature is the biggest liar you can meet. |
YOur answer is simple, but I hope I am not too late.
I had the same exact situation, where my ex found some of my confidential information and started embazzeling me. She also placed a restraining order on me, kicked me out of the house, and used a close relative to stick it to me.
To make a long story short, I agreed to all her terms, had a lawyer and a private investigator help me record everything going on at the house. I laied low, but was able to turn the case around very quickly when I recorded her threatining and throwing objects at me. The judge quickly reversed course.
My lawyer had me write a detailed letter to the INS, supported by court papers, notarized, etc. I basically dropped my petition and all aplications and other documents I signed for her immigration papers. I listed all documents, provided photocopies, all details, etc.
I also got her arrested, re-arrested, etc. where everytime she hires a lawyer, pays bail, inconvenience, other expenses, etc. She tried to exhaust me, and drive me into submittal to process her papers, but I was able to turn the table around.
With a short marrige, you do not have to fear for alimony, etc. I even created many problems for her, so now she has an attorney working on her deportation case. I basically had to show extreme willingness to hurt her, before she stopped looking at me like a victime she can ride to her immigration interview.
I paid her a good sum to sign the divorce papers. Told her the alternative is going to be worst than last few months.
During all of this, she managed to get a SSN, drivers license, buy a car, and get a job. Now she calls me as her deportation interview gets closer ... she wants to get re-married

... she still see me as a victim .. some people will never learn.
I am contemplating calling INS to report her marrige proposal, for the sake of the green card.