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Many times people do get back together, but many times they will just break up again. You don't hear about people getting back on the boards because they are to busy being back with their EX. But why...

Another update guys. I just bought a new motorcycle. Really shouldn't have and actually went in not expecting to get approved but I did. It has really help me over the past week. It's a black...

Thanks for the support...

Just another update, some of you may have seen this coming, I kind of did to..

She has threatened to beat the S**t out of me if I didn't call her back in 20 minutes. She wrecked the car the next...

Talked to the EX today, We have to both go to the bank tomorrow to sign papers from some stuff awhile back.

She told me she was mad at herself for not leaving me sooner and putting up with all...

I wish I could help, I'm going through the same thing though. 12 years and we have been split up for a month. Some days I feel OK but today was very bad, I did some cleaning and found some things...

Another update: Doing very good today. Its such a relief to not worry about her non stop. I know she's fine.

Stuff is becoming very clear to me. We have a lot to work out. I still want to try,...

Doing a little bit better atm. Have not contacted her since wendsday. That was to ask her if she was she was busy Saturday. She said (yeah) than says we will talk later then demands a response. Ok...

Im having a rough time right now, just want to type it out, sometimes it helps.

Im really starting to get the feeling that she doesn't even want try to make things work. Last time we talked she...

I wish I could figure out why I am so worried about her but really not giving a crap about myself. Sometimes I was short with her or would get on a soapbox. This happens in lots of relationships...

Im trying guys. Im getting better. Ive about had enough of her snotty attitude. She still has control and these games are stupid.

Why do I want to be with someone who I have to play these games...

I am the more healthy one but I'm having a very hard time with this, panic attacks, depression, her on the other hand is walled up and on the offensive. She's is in for a shock when she learns I'm...

Most people here know my story, I'm 3 weeks into my 12 year breakup. I told her a couple weeks ago that we needed to to go NC for a while, well she won't let that happen. She always finds some BS...

Hang in there, I'm going on 1 month with my GF of 12 years.

Still in contact like a dummy that makes it harder than it should be, but I do feel better than when this all first happened. Hey if...

It sounds like you do know what she is going through. Panic attacks are the worst ever. Did you do any therapy or medication to get through your anxiety? Is she doing either? Of course the choice is...

50% for me

Yeah she has had them for a while, the same one. But of course now its harder on her. She has an aunt who has some therapist training that talks to her every night. Ive suggested therapy and she sees...

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Just a little update. I went to see my counselor...

He has to go. He already knows he loves her. But he can't be putting himself on hold for her, she left. Will a new girl bring her back? Good chance, but she wanted the space not him

I have been in the a similar situation. My girlfriend and me of 12 years split up 3 weeks ago.

The first 6 years of our relationship was a mess. I was jealous controlling and didn't show her...

Yeah I know. My mom didn't question her at all. (they talk) She just said all these things. The call was business and I wasn't there. We have ties still and I'm trying to take care of them without...

This is what I have realized today. I had my mother call her up for business so I wouldn't have to talk to her. After the call I of course started asking questions. She says... (she sounds like she...

Thanks guys. Im just starting to see the big picture here and it's a little overwhelming and scary.

I do still want to make this work (maybe) although it may be harder than just moving on. Right...

Not enough respect and putting her on the back burner. Those are the 2 reasons we broke up. Did I spend enough time with her? She worked 1st shift I worked 2nd. But we managed to talk a bit every day...

That's good! I had a good night last night, one of the best in years actually. Lots of reflecting and getting in touch with myself by myself. It was nice. I listed to songs on YouTube all night. I...

Really make sure that the plug wires are seated on the plugs, this has happened to me a couple times on civics.

Update: Saturday I tell her we need to stop contact. Im very slowly getting better, eating the same and sleeping the same but the days are a bit more bearable. She protested at first but still wants...

Im sorry if this is out of line but how did this go from a post about him not spending time or helping around the house to violence and restraining orders?

No excuse for the violence but maybe...

I hate that you had to see him. My GF of 12 years has left 3 weeks ago. We knew each other inside and out. It was me and her against the world, we were going to fix what are families had messed up....

For me they are. Fields of gold by sting makes my cry every time since we have been broken up. Im mean really deep crying. Its terrible.

I don't think she is, and this just hit me. It would be easier for me to accept this if it where true that way I could get mad and move on. But the fact that she thinks I have put her on the back...

I can't see why people don't work it out more. Its only logical. You spend years of good times, bad times hopes, dreams so there must be something there even if by defualt. Couples need to get into...

I have been in counseling for the past 3 years and have made progress. Im getting on medication if the doctor says I need it to get through this. Im just curious if from what I posted if this is the...

I know its silly we are not married we both know this. But we have also constantly talked about why it wasn't time. We both have issues to work out. Which we are at this moment I just hope its not to...

OK, my girlfriend and me of 12 years have been split (break) up for 3 weeks. Things are getting a wee bit better for me but the only thought that worries me is if she is seeing someone else. My...

Im in the middle ending a 12 year relationship. She left. She works at Wal-Mart and has some friends there and is staying with one of her co-workers. No offense to anyone that has worked at wal-mart...

I would just be thankful she didn't lead you on for 12 years. LOL sorry. Im bitter.

I think you can help IF you can handle it. Its good that he is talking about his problems. That is a big hurdle that he has already jumped. Lots of people leave things bottled up and this causes them...

When in comes to love men have it much harder IMO. We have to suck up so much.

Everyday life such as work and handling business women seem to have more of a problem because emotions get in the...

Im confused on this. Im open like a window, I talk about my feelings, I want my girl to do the same but she doesn't.

If it is seen as weakness by women they are wrong (sometimes) and they just...

Its been years since I've done a a6 swap. You will need an Si ECU. The D15b ECU will not work. Try this site

DPFI to MPFI writeup - Hondaswap

You can get a lot more civic than a 96 for 6k. Keep shopping

First get the battery recharged, its dead.

Its not turning over at all? Its probably the starter. The starter is located under the distributor. Have someone turn the key to start and you tap (the...

There are not any tricks to get the codes for your radio. Check in your glovebox for stickers on the inside, check armrest,owners manual, lots of times it gets written down.

Some dealers will...

Thanks for your reply tal, I need to hear this stuff.

She CALLED today and I answered (reluctantly) she just wanted to tell me she had a flat this morning and her uncle helped her change out the...

Could someone tell me what is mabye going on here.

I get a text form here again today asking if I sold my lawn mower, this is a commercial mower and is expensive and half of the money was going to...

Ok tell me if I did right. I had not talk to her since Thursday and was not going to call her till next week. She text me Saturday afternoon with... how are you doing today? I say fine. You. She says...

Yeah, I'm in the same boat as you, but me and my girl have been going out for 12 years, I literally had withdraws for 3 days when she left. I gave her a week of crap now I'm backing off for good...

Reassurance as in? This is one reason I told her I loved her and dropped it. She doesn't have near the support or people to talk to that I have and I want her to know I'm here. I asked my grandmother...

The relationship is co-dependent. Yes. But it used to be VERY co dependent on both sides and has come a long way. Im in counseling and have been for 3 years. She isn't ready.

But I think I've just...