Originally Posted by
monica_87
i have been having sex for over three years now and i have never had an orgasm during sex... is that nornal? however i do have orgasms only when a guy goes down on me but it takes forever. i want to know if its just me and if im doing something wrong...
Monica, I'm a man of 36 and when I met my girl 15 years ago I could not bring her to orgasm as she has never experienced it before. In less than 2 months she was gasping for breath and ripping my back with her fingernails. I perfectly remember that night when she came, Jesus! She was like a wild animal and from that moment on she always come.
The best way to have an orgasm during sex is you to identify the most sensitive spot in your vagina. To do this is when your partner is thrusting his shaft inside you, there must be a tiny place in there where you get the most sensation, so keep him there. But this again depends on the knowledge and skills of your partner on sex. If he is thrusting his penis the wrong way, forget orgasm. He needs to explore with short and long thrusts and also occasional 'Stirring' (moving his pelvis in circular motions). By doing all this he will find your spot and in doing so he will feel the change with you. This can be increased breathing , heaving your pelvis begging him not withdraw from that spot or other changes.
Another way is to find your most desirable position or when having have him lick your ears, nipples, neck or other sensitive areas. For extra sensation he can even grab your buttocks firmly.
The ultimate secret is to be aroused fully, so there must be good foreplay. One thing that would surely help is try to watch a porn movie alone just before having sex.
CAUTION: Don't watch it together because he will come too quickly and you can say goodbye to orgasm.
So try these, happy multiple orgasms!