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    ChihuahuaMomma Posts: 7,378, Reputation: 608
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    Jul 24, 2008, 08:17 PM
    Threatening Break Up
    We get into a piddly argument and he threatens break up. I'm thinking its because I broke up with him once, and that lasted 3 months. I think he is trying to pay me back. He never means it. I think its very childish for him to hold this over my head.
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    Jul 25, 2008, 12:25 AM
    You need to be unaffected by it. If he threatens something like that, you have to win with maturity.

    "Oh, well, I do hope our relationship is stronger than THAT. I know it is for me. Just make sure whatever you do is honest and I can live with it, OK?"

    Always calm, always sincere, always attentive.
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    Jul 25, 2008, 12:27 AM
    That's a good suggestion, thank you. I will do that.
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    Jul 25, 2008, 06:22 AM
    It is just a scare tactic He figures you will back off and comply with him because you will fear him leaving if you don't.
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    Jul 25, 2008, 06:26 AM
    Scare tactic and simply fire back with "if that's truly what you want, i love you enough to give you what you would like"
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    Jul 25, 2008, 11:22 AM
    Great suggestions guys. Thank you.
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