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    Romefalls19 Posts: 4,739, Reputation: 1130
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    Nov 5, 2008, 01:07 PM
    How did they end your relationship?
    Well, after hearing about countless stories of people's relationships being ended over a text, phone call or facespace or whatever. I'm curious to see just how many heartless people are out there who couldn't face their S/O enough to say it's over.

    So let's hear it, how did they end your relationship.

    I fell victim to the text followed by turning off the phone, after she told my cousin it was over first.
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    Nov 5, 2008, 01:12 PM

    To clarify from our earlier conversation, it was by text, but actually initiated by me.
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    Nov 5, 2008, 01:16 PM
    Over the phone. She was in Florida, I was in Maryland. She wanted to see this other dude and couldn't wait till she got back to break-up. So it was a little hard to do it face to face.

    However, I think if she was back home with me, and she still wanted to break-up, she would have done it face to face. At least I think...
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    Nov 5, 2008, 02:22 PM

    Over the phone with this guy John, he was such a pu$$y about it that I had to initiate the phone call and the conversation and from there he finally told me he didn't want to be with me anymore.. aw!

    He was such a douche
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    Nov 5, 2008, 02:31 PM

    One of my relationships ended in a very strang way..

    I was working as I do :)
    She was at the house.. we never had fights.. we never had any problems :)
    Ahhhh The BLISS of ignorance..

    Anyhoo. I come home one night she has made a wonderful meal for me.. so I eat. Then go check my e mails.

    I Find a funny email from her
    Saying

    ( here you go porn)

    Im like hmm.. well why not my girl likes porn hell yeah!
    Anyway I open it up and there are pics of her nude..

    There about 10 of them.

    I scroll down and I see my best friend with her naked.. and them doing all kinds of odd stuff..

    Yeah the doughnut sent the wrong email! She was suppose to send it to my friend and as we have nearly the same emails. She got mixed up.

    Well needless to say I kicked off. And I ended it that night.

    Another girl I was with.. went away for a week came back. And just didn't speak to me.. at all. I was like what's wrong.. her words ( I can't deal with this right now).. LoL

    Another fun one. I was dating a model I worked with.. and she told me we should brake up because she was getting fat.
    We went to the gym everyday together
    But I made her fat ;z
    It couldn't have been all the ice cream she was eating.

    Those are the ones that really stick out in my mind
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    #6

    Nov 5, 2008, 08:11 PM

    Face to face. We lived together and she laid it on me on Monday. I moved about 10 days later.
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    Nov 6, 2008, 11:56 AM
    PHONE-(didn't have texts)

    In person- ("your a nice guy but... blah blah)

    Note- (nasty)

    After a first date- (don't know if that counts)

    Kicked out of her house- She let the dog loose.

    After about a month of dating, I didn't call, and neither did she.

    This could get long, so define relationship.
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    #8

    Nov 6, 2008, 11:58 AM

    Ha ha, any time you saw the person for a period longer than a month.
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    Nov 6, 2008, 12:07 PM

    Well this isn't me personally but my brother was with a girl for 2 years and things started to get weird and he knew something was up but she wouldn't talk to him about it. Anyway he finally had enough so he called her on his way to work to ask if she would stop by later so they could talk. Needless to say she broke up with him over the phone while he was sitting in the work parking lot. So he went into work, crying, and told his boss he was going home. Who does that?
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    Nov 6, 2008, 12:07 PM

    I was at work when I got the text about it being over, so I know how he feels, oh and then she came over the next day to exchange things and wanted "one last kiss"
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    Nov 6, 2008, 12:17 PM

    Oh my gosh! So did you give her a last kiss?
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    #12

    Nov 6, 2008, 12:19 PM

    No way! I told her "no, I'm not filling myself up with false hope" and she started crying and was with another guy the next week.
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    Nov 6, 2008, 12:50 PM

    Passed a note in class saying it's not me, it's him, and he just needs to let go, then followed by a text saying: "IT'S OVER! Just leave me alone, and go away".
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    Nov 6, 2008, 05:59 PM

    I was in a long-distance rl with a guy I dated since we met in high school (he was away at college, starting his junior year) and this is what he said "Listen, I've got course work, a job and this relationship. I can't handle all 3, so you and I have to stop." I was so appalled by that statement, I hung up without a word.
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    Nov 7, 2008, 05:49 AM

    Cheated on me when she went away on vacation, came back told me over Yahoo messenger, and dumped me over Yahoo messenger.
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    Nov 7, 2008, 06:50 AM
    One boyfriend stopped answering my calls and stood me up a couple of times. Then one day I finally got him on messenger and asked him what was going on, then he told me that this isn't working. I never heard from him since.
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    #17

    Nov 7, 2008, 11:54 PM

    He didn't call for a week or so, when I did call, he barely spoke.. then one day he said I love you so much, and I miss u (long distance relationship) and you are so perfect but I'm bored OK bye forever...

    p.s. we were together for 2years... AND I've done almost 1month of NC :)

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