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Asked Jul 2, 2012, 02:14 AM — 19 Answers
I never thought of myself as being gifted before, but the more I think about it, the more I start to doubt it. I could be totally wrong and over-estimating myself though. Can I be gifted, based on the following?

I am a 16 year old female living in Montreal (Bonjour!). Still in High School, I will be graduating in 2013. I was actually born in New York and raised for eight years in Haiti, where most of my unusual “habits” started.

Since a very young age, I would figure things out all by myself. I never thought about it because my parents were not very active ones (meaning they never taught me much. They were very absent and our relationship is really bad), but now I wonder if everyone would have been capable of doing what I did. For instance, I thought myself how to read. I remember asking my sister help from time to time, but by the age of four, I remember mastering this skill (and showing it off to my classmates who did not believe me at first).

Other things I taught myself would be, for instance, why far objects move slower than close ones. I did not understand the scientific part of it, but living half of my life in a country with mountains, I figured it had something to do with distance. I also figured out what sex is. I was five or six. Maybe something had happened, but I just remember figuring it out cause to me, kissing while being naked was not passionate enough (was I perverted already?! Haha!) I pretty much taught myself the majority of things I know, I believe.

Since young, I had a very vivid imagination. I did not have imaginary friends, but I would create many scenarios that HAD to match reality. I still do and I spend most of my time daydreaming.

Lastly, I always enjoyed puzzles, word games, etc. I also loved reading but now, that passion faded away. Actually, I have a lot of things I know I would enjoy doing but I give up easily. (e.g.: writing, reading, photography …)

I am also not doing well in school because I don’t make any effort and I don’t study at all. I still manage to pass my grades and that’s all that matters to me. Not to my parents though!

So, am I gifted or just very lucky?

I have other examples, but long texts are sometimes a bother to read so I tried to keep it as short as possible. I am deeply sorry for any mistake I might have done since English is not my first language.

Thank you in advance!

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Jul 2, 2012, 02:16 AM
If you where "gifted" it would of been picked up by your school before now.
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Jul 2, 2012, 02:29 AM
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If you where "gifted" it would of been picked up by your school before now.
Teachers often tell me that I have the potential to do better and that I am intelligent but they are teachers. All they care a out is the good reputation they have. My school has a good reputation in Montreal so they want their students to keep on having 85% and up. They don't care about that kid in the back of the room who spends the majority of time doing something, who also manages to pass! So no, I don't rely on school nor my parents.
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Jul 2, 2012, 02:34 AM
Sounds like you are being a typical lazy teen.
If you actually applied yourself to your studies you would achieve so much more, as your own teachers have already commented on.
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Jul 2, 2012, 02:45 AM
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Sounds like you are being a typical lazy teen.
If you actually applied yourself to your studies you would achieve so much more, as your own teachers have already commented on.
Yes, I am lazy. Lazier than the average teen. Sounds like you are being typical critical adult who just thinks about school and work. I don't like this way of living. Especially the school part because education nowadays destroys knowledge and it sickens me. And since there is no way to live otherwise nowadays, I guess early death is calling me!
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Jul 2, 2012, 02:50 AM
Actually I'm no where need a "typical" adult.
I was the same lazy kid in school, until I found that applying myself actually lead to greater rewards than simply passing the course work.
It's all well and good just doing the bare minimum, but, as you have already noticed, this doesn't really enrich the learning experience or knowledge gained..
At the end of the day teachers get paid whether you pass or fail, so they really aren't all that bothered. They clearly see you wasting your ability and are trying to push you in a better direction. Surprisingly enough they actually want to see you achieve something worthwhile with your life and not waste it on a McJob..

But what do I know I'm just another critical adult, who is in charge of the IT for a multi-billion global company..
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Jul 2, 2012, 03:03 AM
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Actually I'm no where need a "typical" adult.
I was the same lazy kid in school, until I found that applying myself actually lead to greater rewards than simply passing the course work.
It's all well and good just doing the bare minimum, but, as you have already noticed, this doesn't really enrich the learning experience or knowledge gained..
At the end of the day teachers get paid whether you pass or fail, so they really aren't all that bothered. They clearly see you wasting your ability and are trying to push you in a better direction. Surprisingly enough they actually want to see you achieve something worthwhile with your life and not waste it on a McJob..

But what do I know I'm just another critical adult, who is in charge of the IT for a multi-billion global company..
Being in charge of a multi-million company does not mean you are not a typical critical adult. My dad might not be a millionaire but he can say the same thing to me, talking about how serious studies made him have doctorates and what not. Also, I know teachers don't care so that is exactly what I was saying.

I am not like the average joe, who thinks success equals being a straight A student who ends up rich. That is just work. I mean anyone today can do that. Just gotta learn their textbook by heart for their exam and tadah! They have their diploma. What is impressive? But that's not what I wanted to say.

All adults tell me the same story "I was a lazy teen but then after a miracle I started studying and I have two doctorates!" or "I am millionaire!" I don't want to be a billionaire nor do I want to spend half of my life getting some fancy paper that says I am a doctor. I just want to live. And my question was so simple. Am I gifted or not. No? OK I get that. Yes? I get that too. Not "Damn not another lazy teen. Man look at me I succeeded all thanks to school! "
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Jul 2, 2012, 03:08 AM
Well as you clearly have the answers for everything I guess I'm talking on deaf ears.
You've missed my point entirely, although not surprising rather disappointing.
If you are content with simply passing your courses, then go for it.
Life will simply become a grey drudge.
Enjoy and I'll have fries next time I see you..
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Jul 2, 2012, 03:16 AM
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Well as you clearly have the answers for everything I guess I'm talking on deaf ears.
You've missed my point entirely, although not surprising rather disappointing.
If you are content with simply passing your courses, then go for it.
Life will simply become a grey drudge.
Enjoy and I'll have fries next time I see you..
Excuse me but you did not answer my question at all. That's one. Two, I know if I continue like this I am going to fail my life but what I mean is that I don't care at all. I don't care about life, never did or never will. You saying "Zomg I am a millionaire thanks to school now get your stuff together" is the last I wanted to hear cause I have heard it at least a thousand timeS per school trimester and it just has nothing to do with question.

And next time you'll see me, I will be either in the streets of Montreal trying to steal your fries or I will be six feet under ground, decomposed.
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Jul 2, 2012, 03:27 AM


I have to agree with Ben here. You asked us a question but since you don't like the answer, you dismiss it.

I also was like you. Throughout my elementary school years school work came very easy for me. I didn't have to study to get top grades. I was even placed in a special class for "Intellectually Gifted Children" in the 5th grade. When I went into Junior HS, I was placed in a special progress program. And that's where things started to come apart. Because I expected school to be easy for me, I hadn't developed good study habits. So my grades now started to slip. I graduated HS with a C+ average but scored very high on college placement tests.

So, yes, you may be gifted or may HAVE been at an earlier level. We can't tell you for sure because the designation is usually given as a result of standardized tests and teacher recommendations. So to get designated as gifted you have to be evaluated and that evaluation usually comes at an earlier age. At it is an evaluation we can't do through this media.

So my question to you is why does it matter? You clearly are not into competitive grades. You seem to want to slide by to get your degree. Do you think if you are labeled as gifted, that will change your life somehow? That it will get you a better job?

What you need to do is decide what you want to do with your life. Some careers WILL require continuing school and getting good grades. Or you could be very happy working the counter at McDonald's. Figure that out and it will help you decide what to do about schooling.
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