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can I get put into foster care without my parents consent?

Asked Jul 18, 2012, 08:02 AM — 13 Answers
I'm 15 years old and my mum and step dad have done nothing but treat me like dirt on there shoe,like my mum would go to work sometsomenights or days and during the time she's gone my step-dad would be very cheeky towards me,like if I asked were my mum was he would give me smart asnwers or yell and call me names,one day he called me a prick for asking were my mum was and I got very upset by this, I told my mum about this incident and she went back to my stpe dad about this and he denied the whole situation and my mum nearly ate my head off my shoulders calling me a liar and that I do bothing but make up stories, and my step dad has only been in my house for a couple monthsand he doesn't even let me watch my own t.v, which is very unfair, even when he's nt watching anything! My mum would sometimes hit me, like she gave me a busted lip by punching me in the face and I rang the police and they came out to my house and she denied the whole thing sh told them I did it myself, someone just pleasee help me with the ins out of foster care, I've had enough of them doing this to me, cause if ones not picking on me its the other, you'd think they were a tag team

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Jul 18, 2012, 03:34 PM
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Then I would try another social worker AND I'd tell your father IN DETAIL what is going on.

Where is he in all of this? He can go back to Court and request a custody change. You're old enough to have an opinion - although the Court does not have to do what you want.
He lives in england, he trys to ring my mum and everything but she just hangs up the phone on him,he trys his best to come over but isn't aloud as his work never gives him time off
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Jul 18, 2012, 03:48 PM
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He lives in england, he trys to ring my mum and everything but she just hangs up the phone on him,he trys his best to come over but isn't aloud as his work never gives him time off

Then write him a letter OR he can retain an Attorney (where are you?) from England. He certainly cannot think you're in a good situation.

What does he do about visitation?
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Jul 19, 2012, 01:49 PM
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Yes you may think that mentioning not bein aloud to watch t.v is a stupid reason to be complaining, and I kno that myself but I am trying to make my point. He thinks he can boss me about like a rag doll when he can't. He has my mum rapped round his baby finger in other words he's got her doing and listening to what he says or does, were suppost to be moving to canada to, but I really don't want to nor do my sister or brother and my mums exact words were 'I don't care,ill go without yous' she's more less turning round and sayin look I don't give a crap about yous aslong as I have my husband. How do you think that makes me feel?I swear I always feel down in the dumps ever since she said tht, the only thing now that's going through my head is my mum doesn't seem to care about me, like what she said is more than enough proof, and as for you saying about it being my fault, yes me and my mum are both to blame its not always entirely my fault, and I wouldn't treat or talk to foster parents like a bit of dirt, dirt, cause I would respect them, and try to start new and change the way I speak, whether its hell or not, I would just know to start off good and keep on the gbetter side of things, were as in the house I'm in now? Its impossible. No one listens and I always cry myself to sleep.
you aren't making a point....you are making yourself look bad..and self centered. Also, in fact...as long as you live under your parents roof and they support you, they can in fact tell you what to do...and when to do it. Like I said, I wasn't being mean to you. I was point out to you this is life....better you learn to accept
it now..because this is exactly what the rest of your life is going to be like. Today its your parents....tomorrow it s your boss, and customers. NEVER inn your life are you going to get to do everything you want when you want to do it. I fact you will never have as much freedom as you do now.
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Jul 19, 2012, 02:59 PM
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Then write him a letter OR he can retain an Attorney (where are you?) from England. He certainly cannot think you're in a good situation.

What does he do about visitation?
Yess he visits but not alott, he would come couple of times a year, maybe more.
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