Originally Posted by
jordyx2
what do guys truly like in girls? I mean, ive read in magazines that guys like a lot of stuff but all my guy friends act totally different from what the magazine says.
What do guys truly like in girls? Well, it depends on the guy. I like to classify guys into two types:
Class "A" guys are those that look for long-term relationships (either a simple BF/GF type of thing, or potentially looking for marriage). These guys primarily are concerned with
who the girl is and how she fits into his life. For instance, if the guy is fun-loving, likes to party and mainly concerned with having fun, then he'll look for a girl who's funny, smiles a lot, maybe a little flirty (but primarily with
him and not every other guy), and just generally sees things positively. Or if the guy is quieter, maybe more goal-oriented, he wants a girl who's intelligent, supportive, independent and maybe a bit demure. That doesn't mean she shouldn't like to have fun, of course, but it's just that the emphasis may be on calmer, quieter ways of having fun.
I think generally for all these kinds of long-term commitment guys, the girl should just be simple, funny, bright and cheerful. Girls bring joy to the world in many ways. It's good when they play that role.
Now we move on to Class "B" guys, and these guys look for short-term (sexual) relationships... these guys want to get their groove on right now and it doesn't really matter who she is. They want to know
what she is: is she easy? Slutty? Horny? Will she do him tonight? If not, does she have any friends that will? For these girls, the guy's only concern is how fast he can get her into bed. In this case, the girl should be wild, carefree and wear as little clothing as possible--in fact, shorter, tighter, leather is the order of the day here. Ideally, these girls wouldn't think twice of going on "Girls Gone Wild" and have no problem kissing another girl and pissing off Dad just to get some frat boy horny.
For these purposes, you don't really have to be anything but naked.
--huno
P.S.: okay, the above was a huge generalization... though I do believe in the first description I wrote. Girls are great when they're happy, smiling and funny.