What state does child support order get moved to?

The Order is in effect until it is cancelled or the amount is changed by another Order. Moving does not stop the financial clock from ticking.

Visitation and support are different issues. You can pay support and not have visitation and the other way around. Not paying support does not cause visitation to stop. The mother cannot hide the child legally.

What does the Divorce Order say about stopping support? Isn't it automatic at a certain age or certain circumstance, such as ending high school? That wording is important.

The USUAL venue is where the child resides. In your case I believe Florida would take the transfer from Hawaii.

I would first see how the Order is written. I would then contact the Court Clerk in Hawaii and ask how to transfer the matter.

The mother may be difficult to locate, but she can and will be located through either the Court OR an investigator OR she can be served by publication.

Who paid or updated the case in 2010? That matters.

He may try and move it to his state, if the actual address of the mother is unknown to him or the court.

Mother can object and get it moved to her state of residence ( where child is living)

Who did the father begin paying child support to in 2010? Was it through Hawaii or a different state ?

Child is now in college in Michigan or Wisconsin. Not allowed to have the information. Mother found out about father finding and friending son on face book and flipped out. Getting fathers # off face book and calling him to let him know not to contact his son. And then getting a hold of laywer to enforce the order to show father she is in charge and always will be like said on phone.

I have three children with him and hes a great father.Always there for our kids. He also has another son 18 next month always paid child support. But again the mother would let him spend time with him unless he would be with him.

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Could this work for my husband??

Hawaii

To him, child is in college in wisconsin or michigan not sure

OK the father is your husband, correct?. Did the divorce decree include a visitation order? What steps did the father take to find the child? You also didn't answer what the decree said about when support ends.

Jurisdiction can be moved to where the child/mother resides or left with Hawaii. Apparently the mother is satisfied to leave it there, and it would seemingly make no sense to the father to move it to where he doesn't live.

If the divorce decree included a visitation order, then he should file to have the mother cited for contempt of court. If the mother deliberately is hid and is hiding the child, she may be charged with parental kidnapping. I think he needs to pursue that to show the mother she's not as much in charge as she thinks she is.

Debt compromise policy is for debt with the state. If the custodial parent recieved benefits from the state and the state is collecting on it. That is the only place you can compromise.

Yes the father is my husband.
Yes there was a visitation order. They had joint custody. Weekends every other holiday and summer. He tried to go through ex mother-in-law where ex was living and she told him to move on with his life. Also tried to have his mother mediate. His ex-wouldn’t let him see his son. She would do anything even lie. She made it impossible for him. She made to where he had to have supervised visits. He was getting tired of fighting her. And proving she was lying about the things she was saying. She was a nurse. The baby went through SIDS and there is little information now and even less 18 years ago. He had an episode on my husband. Two weeks later had one on ex. He stopped fighting her after not seeing his son for a year. She made it where he needed counseling and other emotional help. She left Hawaii before his visitation. His attorney asked if he really wanted to put his son’s mother in jail. At that time he wasn’t thinking clearly and just wanted to be part of his sons’ life.

It’s a Hawaii order and it state age 24 if the child goes to college. The child is in college. Can that be modified???

Can it be move to the father’s state or the child’s state?
Situations like these are so sad. I feel for the child now 19. Last year he had a concert through high school band came to Florida and she or his son would give my husband the information to see him play. My husband’s family live in Florida. They wouldn’t get to talk to him just see him play in Orlando and they were denied that.

I am so sad. Maybe seeing what my husband is going through I'm not thinking right. Maybe I can’t completely see what the laws are there for. I feel like laws should be modified case to case maybe more personal. People may call my husband a dead beat father but he wants to have a relationship with his children. The laws are worried about getting mothers money. My family isn't well off. My husband had an accident at work and had to retrain making less than ever. We lived off our savings while he retrained. By the time all this was over we had to file bankruptcy. But I have the greatest times with our family.

I wish the law would be 50/50 and if you don’t take the time for your child then you get child support. No holding a child hostage, keeping things from them. Everyone involve would always be thinking about the child. Less time hating each other. I love children and I wish the system was more for them. The bitterness isn’t good for anyone. I am just tired of seeing my husband put up with this.

My husband and his ex were both in the wrong with this child, but you can only do so much before you can’t take anymore. Thank you for all your time. I wish there were more people that can look at both sides. This is one of the hardest things to understand. Thank you once again. Any kind of support or direction to take would be very much appreciated.