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Ombudsman person said my bith certificate was not legal.

Asked Feb 4, 2011, 02:45 PM — 14 Answers
My Father was a doctor that delivered me at home.
Him and my step mother filed a delayed bith certificate with them both as my Parents and raised me.
Now I am trying to care for them and the Ombudsman person told me that I have no rights for they never legaly adopted me.
Is this true?
I have no rights in the state of Ca to make sure they get the care they need.

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Feb 4, 2011, 07:37 PM
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Originally Posted by danahoover View Post
So now I have a new question.
I have been paying my parents property taxes and bills for the past 5 years.
If I am not there child because my adoption was not legal.
And he has given his land to the care taker.
Can I take my dad to court for the money I have paid out.
And any legal fees that I will now have to clean this mess up.
I have to say I love my mom more than anything,
But I am very upset and feel used by the Man that I called my Dad all my life.
There really is no new question at this time until its proven by a court that he is not your father. See my previous post for an explination. It appears that yes he hid the truth from you but at the same time he held you as his own. That is why Scott is suggesting going to court and getting it straightened out. And have him declared the legal father. And for that matter your mother also. So you can aid in making decisions etc as time passes.
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Feb 4, 2011, 08:45 PM
Thank you everyone
I know he is just acting like this because he is old.
The thought of him not wanting to be my father now are thoughts being planted by his young girlfriend.
I will get a lawyer and fight to take care of my parents who had always said I was the best thing to happen to them until now.
Thank you
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Feb 5, 2011, 05:24 AM


Good luck and keep us posted.
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Feb 6, 2011, 06:53 PM
Hi I have a question
My mom is in a care home and I found out my adoption was not legal and my dad told the care home to keep her.
He does not want her home for he moved in the girlfriend already.
Should I tell my mom she is not going home or just avoid the question and try and keep her happy till she dies.
She is 84 and Dad is 96.
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Feb 6, 2011, 08:02 PM


Personal opinion, from a non legal opinion, just keep her happy, and ignore the question if you can. If first her health is bad enough where going home would not be a option anyway, why upset her.
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