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Old Jul 22, 2007, 05:34 PM
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Mine & My Daughters Possessions Included in Parents Estate

Mine and my daughters possession which were stored at my parents home were included in the theft, destruction and sale of every item at their home.

70 years of possessions were narrowed down to 31 items of vaule which were sold for $1,200.00

I am expected to believe that everything else went into a dumpster, Im not that stupid.

But the question is what recourse do I have about my possessions which amount into the thousands of dollars, no one seems to have the answer.

My parents by the way are still alive, but have nothing now! This was a forced guardianship, and my father was diagnosed the remain compentent to make legal decisions but denied by Judge.
They are also the only married couple to ever be declared incapacitated at the same time in Indiana!

Isnt there something I can do?

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Old Jul 22, 2007, 05:39 PM   #2  
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You mention theft and sale in the same sentence. Was the home foreclosed? Can you give a little more detail?
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Well the home is a whole different problem of which I am currently appealing.

The theft I speak of is the fact that 8 people were allowed to enter my parents home who have no connection to my family what-so-ever.

An 8 foot high dumpster was in their driveway, home had not been moved out of, there were antiques and family heirlooms throughout.

I see it as a take what you want throw the rest away, my father had at least $30,000.00 worth of working equipment and tools in his work shop, but as I stated 31 items went to the auction and sold for $1,200.00

more details are at Indiana Probate Nightmares "The American Holocaust"

But again what about mine and my daughters possession can they just take our possessions too, because they were stored there? and are went just outta luck!
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Old Jul 23, 2007, 06:12 AM   #4  
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I still don't get it. Who allowed them access to your parent's home? Why was a dumpster there? Did your parents still have legal title to the home and contents? If you had posessions there why didn't you remove them?

And sorry, but don't get the point of the link, either. It just looks like someone ranting.
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Emland's right, you need to provide more details here. But I can tell you this. Let's assume that the removal of the items was done under a court order. Unless the court was made aware previously, that items belonging to someone else was stored on the premises, then it could be assumed that anything there was the property of the owners.

But for us to really give advice, we have to know the whole story. Who forced the guardianship and why? What court hearings were held. Who was responsbile for cleaning out the home under what conditions?
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Sorry if you found the site to be ranting, its meant to be informative, the worst case scenario, of what can happen.

My mother has Alzheimers, my father was taking my mother to see relatives in another state, he got lost and has a minor accident, in another state and becamse confused, they were placed into a nursing home in that state where they were kept for 5 weeks, by my sister, who hasnt been on good twrms with them for over 20 years. She because she was the one that got the call, next day she went to probate court and had herself and my brother in-law appointed temp guardians, then contacted me, but wouldnt give me any information.

The nursing home in which my parents were placed for 5 weeks made a diagnosis that both of my parents were incapacitated and began their treatment of drugs, which lasted 5 weeks.
They were then transported into a nursing home in Indiana, where my sister planned for then to live their remaining years.
Thats not what my parents wanted.

See it seems I am ranting, but how else do i explain?

An Emergency hearing was held my sister withdrew, I was appointed guardian of their persons and allowed to move my parents to Florida which I did, the guardian continued to recieve most of their retirement income and did not pay their mortgage he simply let it fall behind then gave it back to the mortgage company, but in between he wrote up a document asking to sell their possessions, which of course was approved, so he used the property manager he had hired and his employees to empty the home and sell what was of any value, he never took an onventory, however I know exactly what was there.

There I have attempted to tell the story.
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Ok, now we have some meat that we can base some advice on. So you were awarded guardianship of their persons, but another guardian (court appointed??) was placed over their financial affairs? And this guardian was receiving their retirement income but failed to keep up their mortgage? Then this person asked for permission to sell off the possessions and it was granted (by whom, the court?) This sale occurred without your knowledge? Was the guardian aware that you had possessions stored in the house?

In any case, you would appear to have a strong case against the guardian for failure to fulfill his fiduciary responsibilities. A guardian, when they take on the role, agrees to certain responsibilities with respect to the income and property they are responsible for. It would appear from what you have told us, they failed in that responsibility. You have the right to demand a full accounting from the guardian. If it can be shown they violated their ficuciary responsibility, they can be held financially responsible.

You probably will not get your possessions back, but you should be able to extract a pound of flesh from this guardian. But you NEED to get an attorney, one versed in elder care laws to act on your behalf.
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Thank You for the quick response.

Yes Guardian of Estate was appointed by the court, no he did not know that my possessions were stored there, there was never an inventory that I know of, as far as I know he never even visited the residence which is in a different county than the court.

But it would seem to me that a young girls clothing neatly hung and packed some very expensive, or a football signed by all of the 2005 Colts signed TO Christa or a complete DJ System or thousands of Albums and other misc items, seems it would be obvious that they didnt belong to 70 year old Edith & Ken

2 employees of the property manager were caught by the police loading up their cars with their children present on a Saturday, with possessions from inside the house, a neighbor called me in Florida, I called the Police, the employees did not have the paper work with them ( i am assuming because they were not supposed to be there) so the officer made them return what they had loaded up, back inside the home, but he stated there was nothing he could do because it was a civil matter!

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I agree with Scottgem. Your problem is with the first guardian. I am confused why the financial matters were still left with them once you were appointed. You have recourse, but you will need an attorney.
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One final thing, all of this happened after I had both of my parents examined, at the Lee County Memory Clinic in Fort Myers Florida, my mother of course was only taken part of the way throught the exam, because after the MRI it was obvious where she was in her Alzheimers, however they took my father through the complete exam over a 3 month period including a 2 hour written exam, and the neurologist and his team of specialists came to the conclusion that my father remained compentent to make changes in his will, to appoint a guardian of his choice if need be, and to attend to any probate matters affecting him and my mother in Indiana, but this diagnosis was sent to the court in Indiana and within days of recieving it the home was emptied.

And by the way its the same court, same Judge that allowed guardians of Ruth Lilly to take 80 people on trips to Paris and Hawaii, spending 2 million dollars of her money.
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