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Old Oct 27, 2006, 03:25 AM
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Im Not Sure How Or What To Do With My Situation!!!

Well To Make The Story Short..... I Married An Idiot That Is Illigal And We Moved In Together . When We Got Married He Told Me He Was Going To Give Me His Car As A Marriage Gift... A Little Down The Line He Asked If I Would Help Him Get Citizenship I Said Sure Why Not The Paperwork Started And Things Got Bad Between Him And I Everything That Came Out Of His Mouth Was Related To Immigration And We Began To Argue And Fight Alot ... He Would Always Be All Happy Everytime We Came From Doing Something Related To His Paperwork And Would Always Say "im Going To Let You Have My Car For Helping Me" !.... And I Remember In One Occasion I Asked Him But Didn't You Already Give It To Me And He Laughed And Said Yeah But Its For This Too. We Went To The Dmv And He Even Transferred It To My Name, But One Day He Came Back From Work Saying That Someone Had Told Him That He Was Able To Get A Drivers Licence And A S.s#... I Remember Telling Him That From What I Knew That Was Not True He Made This Big Dram About Saying That I Just Didn't Want Him To Get One That I Was An American Citizen And Havent Done T That He Hasn't Recieved Anything From Ins And He Began To Insult Me So We Argued And He Told Me To Go With Him To The Dmv That He Was Going To Like Prove Me Wrong So We Went And He Litterally Emberrassed Me And By Saying Stupid Remarks To The Clerk And Outloud About How Hed Been Here For So Many Years And Never Done Anything Bad In This Coountry But Work Hard And Him Not Being Able To Get A Drivers Licence While Walking Out Leaving Me Standing There With The Clerk, I Then Ran Out The Dmv Office And Caught Up To Him Because He Would Not Even Care To Look Back And Acknowledge Me! When I Got To The Car He Repeatedly Insulted Me Saying I Was Worthless And Refused To Let Me Back In The Car, Well We Wretled And I Managed To Get Back In The Car. When We Finally Got Home We Had A Huge Arguement And He Began Throughing Things Outside The Apartment Complex So I Grab My Son And The Keys To My Car And Began Walking Out When From Behind He Rushes Me To Take The Keys Away From Me After Wrestling With Him For A While I Gave Him The Keys Back And I Walked Back Inside To Calla Friend To Pick Me Up.. His Mom Went To My Job A Few Days Later To Tell Me That I Needed To Sign The Release For I Refused I Told Her I Need For Him To Pay Me The 1000.00 Dollers I Had Loaned Him To Start The Immigration Paperwork.. Somaybe Like A Week Later She Come And Pays Me The Money And Says I Had To Sign Over The Car I Refused To Do So And Until Today I Never Signed Anything.. I Just Got Away From Him And His Family.. A Few Months Down Later I Call And Tell Him That I Need A Divorce From Him He Refused To So... We Argued And He Asked If I Sign The Car Over If He Take Care Of The Divorce I Said No And At The End He Pretty Much Pressured Me Into It I Said Fine Just Give Me The Divorce And I Will.. He Did Get The Divorce Started Because I Even Went To Sign Some Papers For It ..we Were Supposed To Be Divorsed In August And Where In October And Im Still Not Divorsed And I Just Found Out That The Car Was Sold And Is In August The Its Under Someone Elses Name The Dmv Could Not Give Me Any Information On The Person It Was Registered Under... I Also Found Out The Only Reason Why He Transfered The Car Under My Name At One Point Was Because The Car Needed To Registration Renewal And The Dmv Had His Drivers License On Hold Because They Needed Varyfication Of His S.s.# He Was Being Investigated That His S.s# Did Not Match His Drivers License, So Thats The Real Reason Why He Transferred My Name. Then Even After All The Drama He Renewed The Registration Without My Consent. Thats Why I Called The Dmv Last Week Just To See If He Had Doen The Same Thing And They Informed Me About The Sale.

Im So Angry And Disturbed I Dont Even Know Where To Begin Please Help...

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Old Oct 27, 2006, 03:33 AM   #2  
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What would u like to do?
Sorry but i found it hard to understand ur post.
Are you divorced?
where is he from?
Is he still illegal?
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Old Oct 27, 2006, 06:41 AM   #3  
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Hello isabele:

Yeah, I didn't read it either. Sounds like some stuff you should be telling Dr. Phil.

Seriously, I'm sure you married a jerk. We're not interested in his jerkiness. We're interested in helping you with legal problems.

Here's my advice. Get divorced.

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I will agree, I am sorry, I could not make it though 3 or 4 lines, no periods or commas. Every other word starting with a captital letter. and it all sort of blurred together.

You are married to someone who is not a legal citizen. That is actually fairly commom and not the worst thing to happen if you love him. It appears he has lied to you

And now that you have started the divorce his mom is involved and he is selling things falsely to cheat you out of property. That is about normal for a divorce, and don't expect him to help or be nice about it. And if he is not afraid of immigration arresting him, he won't be scared of not paying child support, so don't except much help there either.

I would say, get on with the divorce and forget him as a bad choice you made in your life.

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Krs agrees: i agree, why do people do it! why marry someone who isnt legal, 99% of chances it always marriage for the wrong reasons.... why else!
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No Im Not Divorced He Never Went Through With The Divorce.
Yes He Is An Illigal Alien
I Was Used In Everyway Possible Way And U Would Like To Know What Legal Options I Can Take Against Him.. Because I Refuse To Just Walk Away Empty Handed... I Already Began By Putting A Hold On The Pink Sleep From Sacramento By Informing Them That I Never Sold That Car
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Well you are legal and he is illegal, then i assume YOU have more rights than him.
Speak to your lawyer.
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