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Old Feb 8, 2008, 09:20 AM
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peace and quite! for how long?

after 6 yrs I ask my wife to leave our home?which she did after i paid her some cash to leave. she"s always depress and complains about everything? she has it made.we live in a great spot in conn. her child hood came back to haunt her.she had a child at 14 and took off had another at 20 and took off. tried to give her a good life and put her on the right track just didn't work.her mothers or father don't talk to her she only see's the one child once a month. am i better off with out this devil? i'm a engineer make a good living and feel i don't want her back around.she's a ! will i be a bad person to file divorice from a mental depression person? she's no getting help and is on zoloft, do I want and drop another bomb on her?

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after 6 yrs I ask my wife to leave our home?which she did after i paid her some cash to leave. she"s always depress and complains about everything? she has it made.we live in a great spot in conn. her child hood came back to haunt her.she had a child at 14 and took off had another at 20 and took off. tried to give her a good life and put her on the right track just didn't work.her mothers or father don't talk to her she only see's the one child once a month. am i better off with out this devil? i'm a engineer make a good living and feel i don't want her back around.she's a ! will i be a bad person to file divorice from a mental depression person? she's no getting help and is on zoloft, do I want and drop another bomb on her?

If you want her in your life, don't divorce her.

If you don't want her in your life, divorce her.

Only you know the circumstances and what is best - I am always troubled when someone knowingly marries a person with problems like these and down the road quotes those same problems as reasons the person he married is terrible. Well, perhaps you didn't know.

If you are that concerned about her mental health, drag her to a Physician for other or additional treatment.

Only you know if you're a bad person for wanting to divorce her or not -
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If you want her in your life, don't divorce her.

If you don't want her in your life, divorce her.
Exactly!
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Usually engineers are extremely level headed people. You have given her a wonderful life and she's not been able to see that. You say her own parents don't want anything to do with her. She appears to have been an irresponsible person for years. You have given her money to leave. Logically thinking here - you are not being a bad person to divorce her. Some people just can't be reached no matter how hard you try. Stop beating yourself up over her and move on. I am sure that there is a wonderful woman waiting for you out there would truly will appreciate all the things you have to offer.
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after 6 yrs I ask my wife to leave our home?which she did after i paid her some cash to leave. she"s always depress and complains about everything? she has it made.we live in a great spot in conn. her child hood came back to haunt her.she had a child at 14 and took off had another at 20 and took off. tried to give her a good life and put her on the right track just didn't work.her mothers or father don't talk to her she only see's the one child once a month. am i better off with out this devil? i'm a engineer make a good living and feel i don't want her back around.she's a ! will i be a bad person to file divorice from a mental depression person? she's no getting help and is on zoloft, do I want and drop another bomb on her?

Thought it over - should this be on other than the legal thread? No legal advice asked for here.
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