My eighteen year old daughter is headstrong and disobedient and insists that since she is 18, she can do whatever she wants. She believes that I cannot tell her what to do anymore, and that if she is asked to pay rent, that she is not accountable to me.
Of course, I disagree since she is living in my home and needs to not only follow my rules, but needs to pay rent like any other "tenant".
I am in the process of drawing up a contract for her to sign. I want to outline to her the various choices that she currently has with her immediate future. Needless to say, she is my daughter and I love her with all my heart, first and foremost - BUT, I will not allow myself to be manipulated and disrespected as I don't deserve it and have younger children in my home. My question is specifically referring to the proper way to go about asking her to leave my home, (in the event she refuses to comply) taking into consideration the '30 day notice' if that even applies and whatever else I need to consider.
Any suggestions?