My wife and I currently have my son, girfriend and son living at our house. He is a recovering drug addict who still causes us trouble. He argues with us, me especially,and beats me up. Two weeks after open heart surgery, he threw me into a wall by pushing me in the chest. Just recently while I was recovering from my back being out, he beat me again. My wife wont throw him out right now because of the baby. Other than filing a restraining order, what can I do to remove them? They are not considered a tenant as there is no leases involved. Do I need to serve them any papers to remove them in say 30 days? Please help me. He is 25 years old an I am tired of them living off us. Also, as a grandparent, will I be entitled to seeing my grandson who I love very much. My wife and I love each other very much but they are causing us to argue alot.
thank You, Allkrome

bushg

Sir your first step is to call the police , when he hits, pushes or gets loud and abusive. I'm not sure if he has any legal grounds to be there or not, esp if your wife is not willing to stand behind you.

missmarple

allkrome:
Call the authorities. Either they get out or you get alternative accommodation in a safe housing authority . You have to be Cruel to be Kind. Be strong, and let the authiorities handle your grandchild temporarily. Your children are well able to looke after themselves. (no excuses)
Take care of yourself. & LOOK AFTER No. One Be strong!