Is it better to have the father not sign the BC.
Im thinking that we are not married, and if I want to travel internationally I would have to get his letter to leave the country. The same would go for him. This could be a pain because he lives 3000 miles away. Also What about getting a passport, if I was the only one on it could'nt it go faster.

Are there any pros to him being on the BC?
A passport and traveling without a hassle is my biggest concern it seems it would be easier with out him on it.