I have found daily emails between my husband and another woman. In the emails he says that he loves her and wants to be with her. He refers to her as his love and that he thinks of her all day. Does this type of email exchange prove infidelity?

aboleth

Well, it would depend in your definition of infidelity. To me, yes - it is. Even if there is no sex involved, they are cheating on you at an emotional level. And that can hurt just as bad as sexual infidelity. Most likely it is a sexual relationship, but honestly, it doesn't really matter. This person is cheating on you.

stevetcg

If you want a divorce, infidelity does not have to be proven. You simply divorce him. You dont need a reason other than irreconcilable differences.

If it helps you get there, then yes, I would say it proves it. A court couldnt care less where he is sticking it.

N0help4u

Tell him you are saving him the trouble of being with you and wanting someone else and so you will be filing for divorce.
You don't need any proof of anything.

talaniman

Take those emails to a lawyer and get the ball rolling.

s_cianci

It doesn't prove that they've been sleeping together, at least not legally. It certainly indicates that he's been unfaithful in spirit if not literally. Your marriage is in serious trouble. Have you confronted him with any of this? Have you talked about your problems?

cadillac59

It would be a good idea to indicate where you live because, as stevetcg said, most US jurisdictions have no fault divorce, which essentially makes infidelity irrelevant. The point is in most of the US the judge will not listen to your claim of infidelity and will not accept evidence on it. Hence, you are wasting your time thinking about it as part of a divorce (not to say it has no relevance to your emotional well-being and not to diminish any hurt feelings you might have).