My ex-husband and I have joint legal custody with me being the primary custodian because they live with me 100% of the time. The only problem with that argument is he has had SEVERAL g/f's since we were seperate/divorced and I didn't get to meet any of them, even the ones he lived with. He chose to leave our family and now thinks he has a say so about who I choose to date. I am a wonderful mother and my children are always my number on priority. It's hurtful to me that he would choose to go the route of saying he will take me to court and get something saying I can't leave the state?? Can he do that?