The father of my daughter is a drug addict and prone to drinking benders. He is not on the birth certificate as I don't want him in my daughters life. He has applied to the court for access but I don't want this. There was a independent solicitor sent out to do a review but she was very judgemental about my age as I am 20 and my daughters father is 36. I feel that I am being judged by my age and not for what's best for my daughter.