Me and my ex had two boys. One is 19 months and the other is 5 months old. I am wanting to get married with my boyfriend soon and he would like to adopt my kids. The kids father has nothing to do with the kids. I have tried getting child support from him but he never showed up to get our dna results. So they cant give it to me until he shows. He has warrants out right now on him. He has said to me and messaged me on Facebook saying he does not want nothing to do with them.