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Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together for eight years and have 2 children together, we both work but are struggling to make ends meet, He also has a child support order for his oldest son. A woman is now coming out and asking him for a paternity test for her 12 year old daughter because the father got a test last year and found out it was not his child after caring for her and paying child support one other guy was tested and he is not the father so now my boyfriend has to go get a test next week, This womans name is listed on his child support as parent to receive support (My boyfriends current order for other son has her name as well ,). He also received a letter that if this child is his he will have to pay back support to her and the welfare system because she was on welfare, I am all for a parent paying support but why should he have to pay back welfare for her if this is his child (she does resemble our son).
You asked a LEGAL question, it was answered - and answered and answered. GV70 did a ton of research which he posted ... but that's not good enough for you.
What answer do you want from "us?" I already said this is not a debate board - if that is your interest, go post there. Post on the Public Opinion Board and everyone can gather together and discuss injustice in the World - this is most definitely NOT that Board.
This is a LEGAL board and you have the answer to your LEGAL question - an answer which apparently you don't want to hear or believe or understand.
I believe "Mary" is making the point that your "man" has 4 children by 3 women and you are now picking up the pieces after him. That's all. I believe she is also concerned that the taxpayers are going to be taking care of you and your kids at some point down the road.
I guarantee you don't have enough money to pay GV70 for the time he spent on your post(s) and you aren't even grateful to him and you aren't going to find his level of expertise FOR FREE anywhere else.
So retain an Attorney and go and argue with him/her. You asked the question, you got the answer. Enough already.
Tax payers do not take care of me and never will, I have worked all my life, never on welfare, my boyfriend also works and takes care of his kids, this whole big discussion turned in to a lot more than it should of. Everyone is making him out to be some bad guy, we both had a child from previous relationships when we met and then we had two children together which he supports as well as his oldest son, then this woman comes along and says he may be the fathere of her child, ok thats fine if it is his he does not have a problem taking care of her, its paying back welfare for for 12 years that she recieved and still receives, How is my boyfriend the bad guy when he was never told about the child until 12 years later, GV70 did do a lot of research and I appreciate it 100% but he kept saying he should of taken care of it 12 years ago, how could he when he had no clue about her
You asked a LEGAL question, it was answered - and answered and answered. GV70 did a ton of research which he posted ... but that's not good enough for you.
What answer do you want from "us?" I already said this is not a debate board - if that is your interest, go post there. Post on the Public Opinion Board and everyone can gather together and discuss injustice in the World - this is most definitely NOT that Board.
This is a LEGAL board and you have the answer to your LEGAL question - an answer which apparently you don't want to hear or believe or understand.
I believe "Mary" is making the point that your "man" has 4 children by 3 women and you are now picking up the pieces after him. That's all. I believe she is also concerned that the taxpayers are going to be taking care of you and your kids at some point down the road.
I guarantee you don't have enough money to pay GV70 for the time he spent on your post(s) and you aren't even grateful to him and you aren't going to find his level of expertise FOR FREE anywhere else.
So retain an Attorney and go and argue with him/her. You asked the question, you got the answer. Enough already.
I am not rude, I appreciate everyones answer but did you read what this person wrote, if you did read it again and realize she has no clue what she is talking about, it has nothing to do with the subject
I know this post is done and over with but I want to apologize if I came off rude to anyone, its just almost everyone had to leave a comment along with there advice as if my boyfriend is in the wrong because of the mother not telling him she may have his child which she did not know either, If the first guy never had a test done he would of never known, but I guess he will not know if its his until its his turn for the paternity test, he is next in line. And this woman has no right to receive welfare for 12 years, she is still obligated to support herself and provide half of support for her child.
And this woman has no right to receive welfare for 12 years, she is still obligated to support herself and provide half of support for her child.
Please focus on your rights and options, and not hers, as your frustration is obvious. While your looking at the worst case scenario, consultation with an attorney may ease your frustration once you have a definite course of action to pursue, after the paternity test. This is a fairly long process to be involved with, so short term solutions will not work. Talk to an attorney. No if's, ands, or but's, as the court only cares who pays, and you must insure your rights are protected.
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