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Old Jun 2, 2007, 01:48 PM
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I am so very Confussed My husband and I justin were married for 9 months and well he came home in Jan and told me to pack my stuff **it was 9 at night** and that i was getting on a bus back to MASS from VA Beach... So pretty much he was sending me home to my momma.... My bus was leaving at 11 and we were 30 mins from the bus stop so i hjad no time to pack after we argured and He made me call my mom from a pay phone.. So he sends me on a bus in the middle of the night no clothes no money nothing... Now i have to pay for a diviorce is there anything i can do too get help... he asid the only way hed pay for it is if i sign that it was consentual.... Meaning he wouldnt have too pay anything for him deserting me.... with nothing and he still has not only my cloths he has my pictures and my memories... what can i do. I cant afford a lawyer or anything likle that im so confussed.. HELP someone please

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Old Jun 2, 2007, 02:06 PM   #2  
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What I would do, and what you should do , are 2 different things, I would like to believe
a good Lawyer Could help do to him , what he has done to you. Will look into.
Hang Tough.
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the first thing you did wrong was leave.

the next thing you can do right is pay for an uncontested divorce and be glad you are done with him. good luck
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Luck, since you haven't given us the reason as to why he did this in such a strange way, I would have to give you advice from a practical point of view. You were married 9 months. Legally, you would be hard pressed to find a judge who would award you any alimony for such a short duration. It isn't as if you have years of accumulated finances together, had children, and cannot work (since you didn't mention any disabilities). So, if you are strapped for cash, I would suggest that you get an easy, uncontested divorce or annulment if the law allows for it in VA Beach. Tell him you are willing to sign for that in exchange for your possessions and his paying the fees associated with the divorce. Just get out of it, walk away from the guy, and find someone else.
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Well first he can't MAKE you do anything, you should have just told him no, and not left, he can not make you call your MOMMA, and he can not make you get on a bus.

You chose to do this, as to to fight with him or perhaps because he threatened you with harm.

And if you file for divorce you can request the court to make him pay 1/2.
Or you can just go back to where your home is and get your stuff, he can't stop you. it is still your home to.

It sounds like you are very very young and was just doing what told.
You need to get an attorney, perhaps talk to legal aid
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