http://www.askmehelpdesk.com en Sat, 21 Nov 2009 19:45:07 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_imgs/misc/rss.jpg http://www.askmehelpdesk.com http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/bereavement/first-love-418089.html Sat, 21 Nov 2009 18:23:00 GMT i have recently lost my first love in a car accident. He just came back from the army & we were going to meet up but never got that chance to. He died about a month ago & its taken and still is taking a huge toll on me physically and emotionally. Im at a losss...i dont know what eLse to do, so i come here & ask. I dont even beLieve in god, but im desperate to get my cLosure. I stay away at night and am a mess by day. I do nothing but cry. I want my love back but since that is impossible i have been looking for a way to reconnect..I dont have a lot of money to spend on the "professionals" also fearing that it will not be true as well. Someone has to be out there to help. Anyone? ]]> Bereavement peanutiis2fly http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/bereavement/first-love-418089.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/bereavement/feelings-surviving-twin-417483.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:31:30 GMT My question is; What is the impact on the surviving twin, if one twin dies as a baby? I am writing a novel with one of the themes as repressed grief (parental) but wonder if, as a teenager, the ssurviving twin has any feeling of loss for a twin she/he never knew. All answers greatly appreciated. My question is; What is the impact on the surviving twin, if one twin dies as a baby? I am writing a novel with one of the themes as repressed grief (parental) but wonder if, as a teenager, the ssurviving twin has any feeling of loss for a twin she/he never knew. All answers greatly appreciated. ]]> Bereavement writing mother http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/bereavement/feelings-surviving-twin-417483.html