http://www.askmehelpdesk.com en Sat, 21 Nov 2009 01:28:46 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_imgs/misc/rss.jpg http://www.askmehelpdesk.com http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/addictions/tests-detect-alcohol-417026.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 06:36:37 GMT Are there any test out there that can detect alcohol more than 6 days? Are there any test out there that can detect alcohol more than 6 days? ]]> Addictions C_Hernandez90 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/addictions/tests-detect-alcohol-417026.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/addictions/mean-alcoholic-boyffiemd-416998.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 04:00:55 GMT been w bf for 16mo, known him for 2yr. We both partied a lot & we drink too much.

I have a 2 yo son w my soon to be ex husband. I left him for my current bf (I didn't love him. the relationship was pretty much over anyway & it was abusive & he cheated alll the time). I moved in w my parents. my mom is a control freak, extremely critical & not supportive at all. My son & I moved in w bf about 2mo ago. My son loves him & my bf treats him great. He's really happy

The problems me &my bf. since I moved in we quit gettingg loaded but we drink sometimes. & when he drinks he's a completely diff person. Usually he's good to me. I lvve him and trust him. Which is hard since I've had so many bad relationships

But when he starts drinking he becomes a jerk, he starts stupid fights, gets jealous, mean & violent. I also have a temper.. I am working on it & I'm doing a lot better tho.

Well a lot of thee time he ddrinks, we fight, he leaves & stays out drinking. Last Mon he did it & I was very upset & he said hed quit. I'm not stupid I know that doesn't mean anything. I am also a recovering addict so I ddef know how hard it is & all

Well lately the stress. Is really getting to me. .my son is so hard to handle he won't listen at all (when we lived at my parents, they wouldn't let me discipline him! they said I was being mean if I yelled.... Yeah they're very critical & enjoy pointing out how I'm doing evvrything wrong) so he's a brat & plus he's hyper & its so hard.

Plus I'm a full time college student - finals are almost here & I have a large workload this semester. Then on top ofall this our relationship.... Well I broke down yesterday & cried like all day long. He said hell help me out more w my son to take some stress offme.

Well he was at work last night & I just needed a drink. I didn't want to bc I knew that would hurt his progress but I was so upset & alonee. Well he got home & smelld it on me. He didn't get mad

But then he started drinking earlier today & left for a few hrs. He's a ing & I know there's nothing to do except wait till morning & hell apologize. But I can't stand it. He makes me so upset when he leaves I can't concentrate on amythimg else. I can't be a good mom bc I'm a complete wreck. Its not fair to my son. I lose my patience. I'm just completely lost & I feel like my worlds falling apart & there's no hope. But the ed up thing is as long as he's here I'm a wholee lot more stable emotionally. Even if he's being mean & treating me like . I can actually concentrate on other things as long as I know he wants to be around me.

I have no one else in my life. My only friend is a . I've knwn her for years and she's a good frieed & all but def NOT someone I can talk to. She's real quick to point out everything I do wrong & blame me for all my problems & give her stupid unwanted opinion & she's a bad lsstener and makes me feel worse. Oh & its not that she doesn't like my bf. She does this if I talk to her about anything.

Likk I Said my parents make me miserable & my mom will just love to rub it in my face that I failed and I can't make it without her.

I'm so ing alone. I have no one when he leaves me. I just needed. A place to vent. Sorry so long.

Idk what I want. I don't deserve this & I know what I should do but acting on it is 5000 times harder than thinking it.

I have social anxiety too so I don't make friends too well. idk what to do

I just need someone to talk to ]]> Addictions aldepone http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/addictions/mean-alcoholic-boyffiemd-416998.html