http://www.askmehelpdesk.com en Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:02:39 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_imgs/misc/rss.jpg http://www.askmehelpdesk.com http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/female-orgasm-417679.html Fri, 20 Nov 2009 04:12:09 GMT What does the term mean Can a woman have multiple orgasms during sex? What does the term mean

Can a woman have multiple orgasms during sex? ]]> Adult Sexuality demeatrice http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/female-orgasm-417679.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/know-hes-not-cheating-so-why-wont-he-sleep-me-417401.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 10:38:42 GMT Me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years now. I understand that in relationships sex is usually quite frequent in the beginning and it dwindles over time. We live together and work at the same place (but not usually at the same time). He plays a lot of video games and I sometimes wonder if... Me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years now. I understand that in relationships sex is usually quite frequent in the beginning and it dwindles over time. We live together and work at the same place (but not usually at the same time). He plays a lot of video games and I sometimes wonder if he'd rather play a game than have sex with me. I (like every other woman out there) assumed he was cheating but we're never away from eachother. We share a cell phone and the only car we have is mine so I know where it is at ALL times. When I try to talk to him about it he says that he doesn't know whats wrong and that the fact that I try so often makes him not want to. I mean, he doesn't even want me to touch him even though I make it perfectly clear that I want nothing in return. I thing now that maybe he just isn't attracted to me anymore. He calls me beautiful often and says im the love of his life. That he wants to one day get married and have kids... but how can you imagine that kind of life with someone you only sleep with once a month? Lingerie doesn't work, walking around naked doesn't work, being sweet and seductive doesn't work. I don't know what to do. It seems like everything is going downhill. I need advice. I love this man and I think he loves me too. What could the problem be? Why is he never in the mood?? We share a bank acount I know he's not spending money on anyone eles... Is it just me????:confused: ]]> Adult Sexuality p3bbl3s0903 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/know-hes-not-cheating-so-why-wont-he-sleep-me-417401.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/sex-addict-417382.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 07:20:16 GMT how do you know if someone is a sex addict?:confused: how do you know if someone is a sex addict?:confused: ]]> Adult Sexuality MarieLee89 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/sex-addict-417382.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/why-wont-boyfriend-sleep-me-417316.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 01:46:52 GMT My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now. I know it's crazy but we moved in together about 2.5, 3 months ago. The first month or two we went at it like 2 three times a day. But for the past two, nothing. Nothing at all. I try to touch him and he won't let me. He kisses and is very affectionate but nothing else.

We have a great time together; we go out and party, we laugh, wrestle, joke. Everything is great aside from that. He has asked to marry me on numerous occasions and wants me to meet his parents that live across the country in January.

He has a bit of an alcohol issue and sometimes other activities. I ask him about the problem and he just says he doesn't know why he won't be with me. The past few times I've asked or commented; he just blows me off. He even laughs about it. He's accused me of cheating and I blow him off. He's gotten erections but won't let me touch him even then!

I'm completely and utterly frustrated. Two months is a long time for someone who sleeps with a man every night. He's only 31. (I'm 28) I've gone over so many different situations: is he gay, am I unattractive (totally not the case), is he cheating....I don't know what to do. I want to buy some new lingerie or just grab it but I'm afraid of being rejected. I don't want to dump him over this; he is a great guy but if something doesn't break soon, I have too. Someone help, please! ]]> Adult Sexuality jessicasimone http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/why-wont-boyfriend-sleep-me-417316.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/partner-has-lost-interest-me-417249.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 21:51:51 GMT hi Please help me, i have been with ny partner for 5 years, he has never been over intereted in a sexual relationship but since we have started to live together its worse. he moved his 14 year old son in with us a year ago and this has almost destroyed our relationship because the child is... hi
Please help me, i have been with ny partner for 5 years, he has never been over intereted in a sexual relationship but since we have started to live together its worse.
he moved his 14 year old son in with us a year ago and this has almost destroyed our relationship because the child is seriously spoilt. Our relationship is poor, we never have time to ourselfs, he never wants to kiss or cuddle and it has been almost a year since we have had sex. On occassions he wants me to mastibate him, but he has not even touched me in a year. I have put on weight I was a size 12 when we met and im now a size 14. He says he loves me and doesnt want any one else but has no interest in sex and when i try to talk to him about it he says he doesnt want to talk about it and life isnt based on sex. I am feeling seriously neglected as i miss the closeness and i just dont know what to do please help. Thank you ]]> Adult Sexuality happiness6565 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/partner-has-lost-interest-me-417249.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/boyfriend-has-low-sex-drive-can-we-fix-417212.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 20:03:15 GMT I'm 31 and he's 33. We've been together for 2 years and plan to get married next year. Basically our relationship are fine. Like any other relationships, we had problems at the beginning. And I found out he has trauma because of his family problem. Before, he used to be a cold person. Being romantic was not in his dictionary. After we talked about and tried to work things out he's making a lot of progress. But still there is one thing still become a problem, especially for me. His sexual drive are very low. It can be 1 time only in 2 months :(. At first, I tried to create the romantic situation for us, but I feel he avoids it. For example, I ask him to go out of town on weekend just the two of us, he always have excuses to refuse it. Or one night I suggest we watch porn to help things out. He agreed, but in the end he ended up watching alien on TV :(. Because it happens all the time, now I'm too tired to try. i do realize, sometimes he can be active if we're in private place (each of us still live in our parents house and its our culture in our country to not move out until we get married...don't ask why :D). We've talked about it several times and I already warned him this sex thing is a very bad issue. I don't want to stuck with in a cold marriage. He admits he has low libido and promise to fix things up. I feel very frustrated, I get angry to him easily, and I do hope we can fix the situation. Do you think he can be better after we have our own place? I love him and I really hope we can fix this. ]]> Adult Sexuality OliviaMe http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/boyfriend-has-low-sex-drive-can-we-fix-417212.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/premature-ejaculation-how-make-things-better-417189.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 18:49:32 GMT Hi everyone,

I'm 23, and i've been with my boyfriend (he's 25) for 5 months now and he's the first guy I've ever slept with. Unfortunately, we live in different countries, but we do manage to see each other every 2 weeks.
The first time we have sex he always comes too early, say after 2 minutes. I found this normal, because he hasn't seen me for a long time. However, this sometimes happens during the next times we do it as well. And he has told me that, he would last longer with his ex, but I just make him be so turned on that it's hard for him to retain himself(?). He says it doesn't have to do with me, it's not my fault, but I've been thinking about it lately. He does give me oral and I've never had a vaginal orgasm, but I do enjoy it when he's in me, and love it when it lasts a bit longer. I'm not saying half an hour, just 10 minutes maybe? He gets frustrated as well by this, because he says that the orgasm is better when it comes later...
He has been to the doctor a few years ago, and he doesn't have a physical problem. I'm just wondering, if there's anything I can do, or if what I'm doing might be the reason behind this?
It's a delicate subject, but we do talk about it, and I just want to make it better for both of us.

Thank you!!! ]]> Adult Sexuality fisk http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/premature-ejaculation-how-make-things-better-417189.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/first-time-sex-am-still-virgin-417159.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 17:36:08 GMT I am a virgin who recently decided to sleep with my boyfriend for the first time. He was also a virgin and inexperienced. When it came to the time for penetration he seemed unsure what to do so I tried to guide him to the right place. However, it didn't feel like he completely entered me. I could feel some sort of contact but it was not painful or uncomfortable and there was no bleeding as I was expecting. While he was thrusting I didn't feel anything at all. I'm unsure if he actually entered me, he did come though. Is it possible that he may not have been entering me at all and does this mean I'm still a virgin? ]]> Adult Sexuality lolalola84 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/first-time-sex-am-still-virgin-417159.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/trouble-orgasims-417136.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 16:13:17 GMT Ok Im 24 years old. I have a problem with having orgasims. I do not reach an orgasim through masturbation or oral or vaginal sex. I only get it through lying down and pushing against the floor. My penis is flat and for some reason the pressure gets me off. I dont understand why or how but ever... Ok Im 24 years old. I have a problem with having orgasims. I do not reach an orgasim through masturbation or oral or vaginal sex. I only get it through lying down and pushing against the floor. My penis is flat and for some reason the pressure gets me off. I dont understand why or how but ever since I was very young it has been like this. I cant comprehend why i have this problem. If anyone knows a way for me to get help for it please let me know because I would like to have an orgasim like a normal person. ]]> Adult Sexuality someguy3620 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/trouble-orgasims-417136.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/25-adult-having-strange-wet-dreams-417105.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:57:39 GMT I am 25 years old and have been going through a extended period of sexual drought. In the past week I have experienced two wet dreams and attribute them to the lack of sex. In both dreams they started with an attractive fit men, but I never have sex with them and end up having sex in my dream... I am 25 years old and have been going through a extended period of sexual drought. In the past week I have experienced two wet dreams and attribute them to the lack of sex. In both dreams they started with an attractive fit men, but I never have sex with them and end up having sex in my dream with either an attractive black women or over weight women. Am I having these dream because I'm worried about sexual taboo's or can't face the truth about my own sexuality whatever it may be. Can someone shed some light on this subject? ]]> Adult Sexuality sklclo25 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/25-adult-having-strange-wet-dreams-417105.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/first-time-sex-416985.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:19:56 GMT I am a virgin who recently decided to sleep with my boyfriend for the first time. He was also a virgin and inexperienced. When it came to the time for penetration he seemed unsure what to do so I tried to guide him to the right place. However, it didn't feel like he completely entered me. I could feel some sort of contact but it was not painful or uncomfortable and there was no bleeding as I was expecting. While he was thrusting I didn't feel anything at all. I'm unsure if he actually entered me, he did though. Is it possible that he may not have been entering me at all and does this mean I'm still a virgin? ]]> Adult Sexuality lolalola84 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-sexuality/first-time-sex-416985.html