http://www.askmehelpdesk.com en Sat, 21 Nov 2009 23:33:33 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_imgs/misc/rss.jpg http://www.askmehelpdesk.com http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/workplace-relationships/shame-not-417860.html Fri, 20 Nov 2009 21:37:48 GMT If a woman likes her coovorker and everyone can sence her feeling towards him even though she tries very hard not to show them: Is it a shame for her if she understands that others ( and him himslef) actually can see what's going on inside her,- that others understand that she likes her coleague and he does understand it too? Especially if the person that she feels symphaty for is married?
What should she do? :o ]]> Workplace Relationships Klaipeda http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/workplace-relationships/shame-not-417860.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/workplace-relationships/insane-me-quit-new-job-417853.html Fri, 20 Nov 2009 20:53:41 GMT I hate my job, I absolutely hate retail and especially at this store. I've been working there for a month but so far I've only been scheduled to work once a week. My boyfriend tells me to stick it out because I need a job and something is better than nothing. But at 8 hrs a week, its just enough for gas and food to eat while working, so would it be insane to quit my job? I'm already on a job hunt and I don't know how long it's going to take. ]]> Workplace Relationships ladyjune http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/workplace-relationships/insane-me-quit-new-job-417853.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/workplace-relationships/birthdays-work-417771.html Fri, 20 Nov 2009 15:51:18 GMT In this scenario a new girl joins a team at a corporate office. She is a receptionist. The other receptionist has been working a little longer and is slightly older. The other established staff all get on quite well but at birthdays do not show much attention towards getting gifts etc. for each... In this scenario a new girl joins a team at a corporate office. She is a receptionist. The other receptionist has been working a little longer and is slightly older.

The other established staff all get on quite well but at birthdays do not show much attention towards getting gifts etc. for each other, only certain people.

On occasions there are pass arounds i.e. to give donations for a gift which was quite big one time for an older lady who is normally quite generous anyway.

Normally the attitude can show a little "why should I"? Donations are definelatyly not emotionally or financially when the occansion arises.

So, the older receptionist is normally quite generous to the staff team (giving of gifts) and friendly but on her birthday was shown little interest, even when she bought in a cake etc.

The new girl invited the colleagues all to her birthday party in a restaurant. Which may have stimulated a financial obligation from staff.

They could not all make it but were really debating over what to get her for almost a week. Eventually they bought her a gift at which the cost combined came up to more than their normal combined individual donations for any member of staff. Even the older lady who gives people a lot.

With regards to reportoire she is very friendly and a nice person but mostly keeps to herself comfortably.

Any comments? ]]> Workplace Relationships freshfocus1 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/workplace-relationships/birthdays-work-417771.html