http://www.askmehelpdesk.com en Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:27:27 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_imgs/misc/rss.jpg http://www.askmehelpdesk.com http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/15-yr-old-masterbates-almost-every-night-417843.html Fri, 20 Nov 2009 20:03:32 GMT Is this normal? I feel like i can not go to sleep if i do not masterbate. I mean it takes longer..if i don't then it will take about an hour for me to fall asleep and when i do do it i fall asleep within the next 5-10 minutes. ]]> Teens Morgans on dah http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/15-yr-old-masterbates-almost-every-night-417843.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/did-she-loose-interest-417568.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 21:17:27 GMT I apologize for the length of this....but i need help

I met this girl through a good friend, and found out a while ago that she thought I was cute and that she liked me. For a long time I didn't think that she was my type at all. I saw her a lot because she's friends with my friend, and started to realize that she is actually a really cute, cool girl. The problem was that I noticed that my friend really had feelings for her so I wanted to back off. Unfortunately, throughout drunken nights where she was around we ended up making out on a few occasions, but only when under the influence. I actually was starting to like this girl, but I still was afraid to pursue anything. Friends first!!! I wasn't sure if it was wrong of me to go after her. I took her on a date one night and spent time alone with her another time, but nothing happened more than kissing. But, I also was sending very mixed messages to this girl when I really didn't want to. In a way this probably helped my cause because she was the one initiating the conversations, and I had a mysterious aspect that kept her wondering. After probably a month and a half since the first time we kissed, my friend actually ends up finding a girl. With that I decide to make a real move. Of course it happened when we were drunk, but she stayed the night. In my bed she specifically told me that "I hope you don't think your going to fu$$ me tonight". I played it cool saying that it would be nice but i completely respected the fact she was so straight foreward. I do have to mention that we discussed this whole situation that night. She told me that she can't figure me out, but she really liked me and I replied with with the same. I also regretfully (being drunk) explained to her why I had been so wierd about things because of the whole friend situation. It was after that night when I think I messed up. I completely changed the way I acted toward her, showing her too much interest. We went out again on a day hike date to the top of foothill overlooking the town, which was awesome I might add. However, now that I think back, this was when our whole situation turned to me taking initiative in calling. In fact, I was the only one making the calls and texts now. Also, again being drunk, I have complimented her way too much (at least I think). I don't want to be too nice. Anyway, her ex-boyfriend who had gone out with her for about 3 years has had problems with drugs and legal issues and she has had to take care of him. I had completely understood, having been in the same length relationship, and wishing that I had kept in touch but didn't. I guess i completely don't regret this i just again don't want to be too nice. There have also been different situations where i have tried to contact her but her cell has been "dead" and just recently the screen broke so she can only answer calls not make them or text. I don't want to ruin this and still want her to have that spark she previously had. Even though I told myself that I don't want a relationship right now I can see this turning into one. Unfortunately, I am in that trap of liking her too much and probably more than she likes me. So my question is if anyone thinks I messed things up and lost her interest? And... what should I do about calling her? I feel like I haven't called too much, but almost too much. Also, I feel like I am acting different from the person she initially liked because now I really like her. What do you guys think? Thank you so much. ]]> Teens Rockursock http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/did-she-loose-interest-417568.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/concerned-teen-417387.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 07:39:59 GMT Hi im 17 n i ave seen bumps on tha lip of my private..they itch and burns sometimez alittle but r puss less n they do ntn smell n i am scared to tell my dad is there any possibilities that they might go away/ i can buy over the counter treatment... Help me . Hi im 17 n i ave seen bumps on tha lip of my private..they itch and burns sometimez alittle but r puss less n they do ntn smell n i am scared to tell my dad is there any possibilities that they might go away/ i can buy over the counter treatment... Help me . ]]> Teens Frighten http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/concerned-teen-417387.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/skin-care-417385.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 07:37:37 GMT I had chicken pox is there any creme that may help to remove tha spots for sure.. In need,n my sister has stretch mark tell us wat u know is very gud. I had chicken pox is there any creme that may help to remove tha spots for sure.. In need,n my sister has stretch mark tell us wat u know is very gud. ]]> Teens Frighten http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/skin-care-417385.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/cant-healthy-417327.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 02:23:52 GMT Well, hi there. It's me again. Still troubled over my life. I'll just skip all the boring stuff and get right into it.

So, what seems to be bothering me the most at this moment in time is my hopeless, yet very large crush on a straight guy (I'm bisexual...and also a guy, clearly). I feel like the harder I try to get over him, the harder it is. Ever since that party when I told him how I felt, I feel like we've become better friends, which is a good thing, I suppose. Though I'm still horribly confused, because one second he seems flirtatious towards me (or at least really nice), and the next he completely ignores me.

The next thing, school. I'm almost always stressed over it, as I'm trying really hard to get all A's, plus I took on an AP course on saturdays, and that also has me stressed. Plus, my self image is not a good one. I always feel ugly, like I'd be better off dead. I've even given some serious thought to cutting myself, which I know is not something I should get in to. I lay awake at night thinking about my life and how it would be so much better if things were different and I feel like I dwell too much on negative thoughts that I always end up feeling worse about myself. At the same time though, I can't help but think those thoughts.

I feel like what I need is just to sit down and cry for a few hours...I don't think I've cried in a year or so...that's a lot of pent up emotions. The problem is, I just can't bring myself to do it. I'm not sure how bad this all seems to to you, but I know that this is the saddest I've felt in a long time--and I just don't know how to cope. Any help is appreciated! Thanks in advance. ]]> Teens xxsmileyface http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/cant-healthy-417327.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/issue-self-harming-cutting-417324.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 02:15:18 GMT Well I know this girl and she is kinda sweet. But oneday at school I was over by the trash can and she came over and had started washing her hands. As she was washing her hands I noctice cuts on her wrist. This was a shock to me because she is a beautiful nice girl. I want to tell her that I know... Well I know this girl and she is kinda sweet. But oneday at school I was over by the trash can and she came over and had started washing her hands. As she was washing her hands I noctice cuts on her wrist. This was a shock to me because she is a beautiful nice girl. I want to tell her that I know shes been cutting herself but Im to scared. I dont want her to cut to deep and kill herself. I care about her very much and I dont know why she would cut herself? There are other people I know who cut themselves. ]]> Teens RadioActive697 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/issue-self-harming-cutting-417324.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/totally-confused-boy-drama-417272.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 22:55:34 GMT So there's this guy at my church. There are so many wonderful qualities that he possesses: he's sweet, funny, handsome, not to mention an incredible gentleman. Here's my dilemma, as much as I like him and think that he likes me back, (he goes out of his way to talk to me, pays special attention to me, and will move an entire group of people inside just because I think its chilly!) I can't tell him. Usually I am a confident and intelligent young lady but when I am around him I seem to lose it and I start acting like a nutcase. I was going to tell him but he told me that he never wanted to make me uncomfortable (I obviously was because I was fiddling uncontrollably) so I didn't have to explain anything. We flirt back and forth all the time but its killing me not to be able to hold his hand. So overall I have two problems : 1) I need to know from a guy's point of view if he does indeed like me. 2) He broke up with another girl almost 2 months ago and he really liked her. Obviously, the logical solution would be to back off but I can't seem to. Help!! :eek: ]]> Teens bookworm5963 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/totally-confused-boy-drama-417272.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/out-control-teanager-416994.html Wed, 18 Nov 2009 03:44:34 GMT I have two daughters 20 and 17 I am divorced now remarried with a wife 11 years younger than me with a stepson eight and a new baby 11 months. My 17 daughter lives with us and now has a car to drive to school. We have tried to set rules. She doesn’t follow them. She comes and goes and has a lot of... I have two daughters 20 and 17 I am divorced now remarried with a wife 11 years younger than me with a stepson eight and a new baby 11 months.
My 17 daughter lives with us and now has a car to drive to school. We have tried to set rules. She doesn’t follow them. She comes and goes and has a lot of friends. If she doesn’t get her way she threatens to leave,
My current wife has threatened to leave me if I do not “grow some…” and put my foot down. My daughter and current wife are not talking. My wife is a control freak and wants me to lay down the law. I work 60 + hours a week and I am having a hard time trying to come up with a solution. Any Ideas? ]]> Teens rockandhrdplace http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/out-control-teanager-416994.html