http://www.askmehelpdesk.com en Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:40:49 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_imgs/misc/rss.jpg http://www.askmehelpdesk.com http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-family-people/evicting-sons-417615.html Fri, 20 Nov 2009 00:16:17 GMT Hello. My 2 sons are 21 and 20. They do not pay rent, help out around the house. They stay up all night and sleep all day. I have asked them to pitch in several times. I get cussed out. All this in front of their 10 year old brother. the police say They can do whatever they want, including cause... Hello. My 2 sons are 21 and 20. They do not pay rent, help out around the house. They stay up all night and sleep all day. I have asked them to pitch in several times. I get cussed out. All this in front of their 10 year old brother. the police say They can do whatever they want, including cause havoc all night. I live in Suffolk County, NY.

Any advise or real life experiences will be greatly appeciated. Thank you all. I want them out. I think their wings are very flappable to fly away on their own. ]]> crazydogs http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-family-people/evicting-sons-417615.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-family-people/best-friend-wont-talk-me-dont-know-why-417553.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 20:17:27 GMT Me and my best friend have been friends for about 3years now. Shes kinda moody and stuff. Recently we had an agruement over a boy, but i was the bigger person and said she could have him. We seemed to be okay after that. Then a couple of months later shes just acting strangely around me. I dont... Me and my best friend have been friends for about 3years now. Shes kinda moody and stuff. Recently we had an agruement over a boy, but i was the bigger person and said she could have him. We seemed to be okay after that. Then a couple of months later shes just acting strangely around me. I dont know why, everytime i ask her she just says she doesnt want to tell me.. :( I dont know what ive done. She was pissed off because our group of friends were teasing her about being with the guy and so i assumed that this was it. And i apologised for it too, but she just keeps ignoring me. I dont know what to do, i dont want to snap at her but i need answers! Help! Please! ]]> ColzLawd http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-family-people/best-friend-wont-talk-me-dont-know-why-417553.html http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-family-people/want-dad-birth-certificate-am-adult-child-deceased-father-417476.html Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:15:27 GMT My parents were never married. My mother listed "father unknown" on the birth certificate, and kept me from my father my entire life. I met my Dad when I was 23 - 15 years ago, and we have had a good relationship since then. My father died two weeks ago, and my mother had nothing but terrible things to say about him, including that he never gave her a dime in support. None of what she's said is true, and I missed out on two older sisters and two younger brothers and a lifetime with my Dad and family. None of that can ever be replaced.

The state of Indiana informed me today that my father had, in fact, paid her support as recently last month, and going back quite some time - and I know he had to have far overpaid what he owed in arrears, since I remember mom saying she took him to court when I was 14 (24 years ago). Yet I have nothing with my father's name on it. No personal proof that he is my Dad.

I want my Dad on my birth certificate, he deserves that much. I would like to know how to make that happen, and what I need to do to get it done. The state child support office will not give me the information, and the county clerk where I was born says paternity records are sealed to me, even though I am the child! What can I do here? ]]> s10f86 http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-family-people/want-dad-birth-certificate-am-adult-child-deceased-father-417476.html