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Hi clickaus,
I guess you enjoy every minute of your honeymoon by now. Good for you. :)

I forgot to mention one thing to make your marriage better in my answer earlier. When you have a chance,...

Hi,
You say you guys are broken up, and he is over you.
He has no obligation to catch up with you and be nice to you. You expectation is not reasonable, because you are still in denial and have...

Oops, you are right. :D
Lisa,
So, how do you know him? How old are you? I hope you meet him in person soon, and find out he is charming and nice to you. Good luck!

Are you kidding me? Tom Cruise by himself is smoking hot! :)

So, how is your guy? Is he treating you well, and make you happy? That's all counts.

I have been MD's wife, (he passed away) I understand the popularity of MD stuff. :)

You married to a flattering MD who has divorced, and has a court battle with ex girlfriend over child custody....

Yes, it is. You should feel lonely while you are working on healing.
However, the reward will be huge, you will start with a right man who loves you, respects you, and most importantly deserved you....

Clickaus,
I read all your threads, and am sitting here & smiling by myself. You fell in love with a culturally mysteries, sweet, and beautiful woman and married in short period. How lucky you are!...

I am really worry about your wife and your marriage, and came back. You destroyed love in your life, turned your marriage into battlefield. I am so sorry for your wife, who is terrified and suffers...

I feel so sorry for your wife. What a miserable marriage she is going through…
You do not deserve your wife. She is suffering physically and emotionally, and her life is miserable. You did not...

She sent you the email directly, because she knows you are emotionally wrack, and will not handle to face her to pick up TV. Long in short, she wants to get out of you on and on and on.
In my...

Are you still wonder why she did it?
Nobody knows why she did it except her.
In fact, she will not even know why she did it if she was drunk and had blackout.
I am amazed you are keep puzzling...

OK. You made a very good move for yourself.
Then why does it matter if she block/unblock you on face book? Just ignore it and focus on your own happiness. It is useless to overly analyzing the dead...

We all have up and down.
It is normal you are jealous over your boy friend's successful well being while you are going through dull time.
You always have to manage your world (focus), along with...

I understand they were their first, still miss each other, but I personally think they have very slim chance to make it work.
They were in relationship in their teens. They are 23 now, grown up,...

Dear nitelight,
I am wondering if you are doing well with your baby... please focus on taking care of yourself and your baby.

I am not trying to upset you, you still have strong feeling, will and hope for him.
However Shy,
When a man loves a woman madly, he can do anything to be with the woman, and make it to work FOR...

You started the relationship with the girl you could not trust.
It seems what she had with you was lust, not love. Even worse, the lust was doomed as you noticed. The simple sign of love is...

Hi Jumper,
I understand your frustration due to the uncertainty. You have seen this girl for the past 13 month. Has she been always this way not to let you know either she will see you next week or...

Hi jumper,
How did the date go with girlfriend? I guess it went well.


It is very good start and you just do everything right. However, please don't forget you need to be this way FOR THE REST...

Hi,

This is exactly what I wanted to hear. I can see why she loves you. I am happy to help you. :)

1. Your girlfriend not only loves you, but also she has great wisdom and insight at her age....

You are so lucky your girl friend loves you, and she is so patient with you.
However, you have bad temper, uncontrollable anger, and it will destroy any relationship or anyone around you if you do...

It seems this 6 year long relationship did not grow stronger & fruitful, but failed to set the date, and now it is self failing.
When the committed relationship reaches at some point, both partners...

I can imagine your shock, and emotional trauma.
It can be the worst think people should tolerate.

The good news is the relationship is clearly OVER.
The relationship you had was not what you...

Thanks for answering.
You answer clearly shows that you do not love her enough to marry even after 5 years of relationship. That was your problem.

Either sticking with NC or not is not that...

Dear billboland,
Do you really love her?
Do you want to be with her for the rest of life?
Before talk about anything further, answer these 2 questions.
These are yes or no question.

I completely understand you. His cruel torturing will not help your unborn baby. You really need to focus on taking care of yourself and your baby. Where are you iving now? In US?

In fact, she knows that her feeling for you is getting deeper, and like to find out if you are really serious about her. She does not want to get hurt. She likes you a lot. Give her all attention and...

I can explain it to you clearly. She is NOT INTO you. She used you when she was free. Forget about her, stop wasting your valuable time and energy. Please find someone else and be happy! :)

Jody,
Thanks for the clarification. I am glad my assumption was wrong. My apology.
I hope you feel better day by day. :)

Hi,
Here is my thought.
You have the clear reason that you could not love your husband.
You are cheating with a married man who is expecting a child.
You should be blamed for your marriage...

I feel so sorry for you.
It is not acceptable at all.
Married men should stay with wife and children. Period.
Abandoning family, hanging out, and partying all night without phone calls? He is...

Dear Jody,
Are you trying to accept his cheating since you are painful and lonely?
He had track record of 5 kids from different women, no steady job, bur constantly sleep with other women whenever...

I feel so bad you are suffering so much, and I am here again to help.
Your husband seems way confused between dead-past memory and reality, and it impacts your marriage tremendously.
It seems to...

I know what you mean. I wish I have the magic wand for you. :)

It is so sad your husband is STILL stuck with the past, keep trying to torture you, and threatening you by mentioning divorce. It is really shame he wants to abandon his own baby as well (even in his...

It is understandable you miss the first long term relationship.

However, my friend,
The girl you used to love has gone, and the person you still think you love only exists in your memory. In...

I will give a different approach.
If he cheated on you Wednesday again, even though you caught him Monday, you actually did not have relationship with him as you thought to be. It is dead already,...

It is time to get rid of all the junky stuff she left you from your life completely. If you do it, you will feel much better, and easier to move on. Trust me.
Please delete all the emails, txt...

Hi jo_dy,
I hope you feel better everyday. Here is my thought.



It sums up the abusive type of relationship you have had with him. From early on, he has brain washed you, made you submissive...

I agree with you. It is really sad, and his is pathatic. Having 5 kids, facing another divorce, and will loose a nice wife like you... I wonder what he has in his mind when he sleep with strangers. ...

Very well said, and it sounds like you made the best plan for yourself. It still hurts, and you are still in shock & grief, but you will feel better day goes by.
I hope I can see your smile soon! :)

Yes, it is. I am so sorry for your pain, I feel for you, and hope you feel better as time goes by.

graduate2life,
Yes, my mistake was I was too genuine, did not have wisdom to see through the person.

I met my first husband when he was still in med school, and we married just after he finished...

I was wrong about the face book situation of yours. Sorry for inaccurate comment.
Thanks for reading my thread, and I feel calm, feel better, and actually I like to delete it but I do not know how. ...

Lol is about right. :)
In fact, the brain damage is not done by her, but by you.
You voluntarily stalking her over face book constantly, and let your heart dwell in the fantasy.
Living in a...

Yes, brain damage.

WOW, I can feel your pain. It is way beyond the acceptable level.
You mentioned text message, face book, and no intimacy on the top of other alcohol related problems, I have to think she left you...

Harriejansen,
I think you have too much free time in the foreign country.
Why don’t you date other attractive girls? It is beautiful spring, and you left her year ago. It is really perfect time to...

If_only sweetie,
You already said that he wanted to be free like a bird (in your post), but you stalked him against his will A LOT. He is very annoyed, and he does not want to be friend of you at...

“Is it normal for a wife to be sexually frustrated while her husband is deployed?”
The answer is of course “Yes!”. If she is not frustrated upon your leaving, it will be very odd. Please try not...