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Asked Jun 17, 2012, 11:46 AM — 38 Answers
I've been sleeping with this girl and she was sexually abused and has a scar going from her bikini line down the inside of her thigh i was abuses in the bed room to need HELP!

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Jun 18, 2012, 05:36 PM
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And you really think her parents would consent to her getting married at 13?
probably but i would have to wait till Feb. to get married.

my mother said i could if my girlfriends parent yes i hope they do!
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Jun 18, 2012, 05:40 PM
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my mother said i could if my girlfriends parent yes i hope they do!
Well that's great, congrats! Where do you work? Where does she work? Where will you live? Are you even allowed to cross the street by yourself? I don't know of any place that will hire a 13 year old, so how will you support yourself, and your 13 year old wife, when you get married?

Troll! Go to bed!
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Jun 18, 2012, 05:42 PM


You know you deserve it, you deserve to lose your childhood, to be responible, to never know what it is to grow up and have a normal childhood.

You deserve to end up with a wife that has emotional problems and will at about 18 feel cheated of her childhood with perhaps two or three kids by then.

You deserve to be on welfare and owe me and others for the food on your table.

And you will be a great example to other children to know and find out what not to do.
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Jun 18, 2012, 05:45 PM
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my mother said i could if my girlfriends parent yes i hope they do!
I found the law i was breaking

No Requirement of Force

Statutory rape differs from other types of rape, and from child molestation, in that the act would not be a crime if all participants were above the age of consent. Unlike "forcible rape," statutory rape can involve underage participants who willingly engage in sexual relations. However, because those under the age of consent cannot give legal consent to sex, the act is a crime whether or not force is involved.
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Jun 18, 2012, 05:48 PM


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my mother said i could if my girlfriends parent yes i hope they do!
I'm having a hard time believing your story. It sounded far fetched in the beginning, but your mother would allow you to marry at 14!!! Why? How could you possible support a family? But then, again, a parent that would allow two 13 yr olds to be alone in a bedroom, should be brought up on charges.

And hopefully her parents care enough about her to put the kibosh on that idea.
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Jun 18, 2012, 05:51 PM
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You know you deserve it, you deserve to lose your childhood, to be responible, to never know what it is to grow up and have a normal childhood.

You deserve to end up with a wife that has emotional problems and will at about 18 feel cheated of her childhood with perhaps two or three kids by then.

You deserve to be on welfare and owe me and others for the food on your table.

And you will be a great example to other children to know and find out what not to do.
I'm not excited any more and will probably breakup with my girlfriend now

I hate it when someones right

my girlfriend has been siting here the whole time reading these and she agrees we should stop seeing each other for a wile so that solves my problem.
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Jun 18, 2012, 06:09 PM
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I'm not excited any more and will probably breakup with my girlfriend now
You went from wanting to marry her in February to breaking up with her, and you wonder why 13 year olds shouldn't be dating? That says it all.

Bottom line, legal, illegal, right, wrong, you're not old enough to play adult games because you're a child.

Breaking up with her is the best thing you could do.

Having said that, I still think you're a troll, and frankly, I don't believe a word of what you posted. But, maybe some other 13 year old moron will read this and see how stupid it all is.

Good luck.
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Jun 18, 2012, 06:53 PM
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You went from wanting to marry her in February to breaking up with her, and you wonder why 13 year olds shouldn't be dating? That says it all.

Bottom line, legal, illegal, right, wrong, you're not old enough to play adult games because you're a child.

Breaking up with her is the best thing you could do.

Having said that, I still think you're a troll, and frankly, I don't believe a word of what you posted. But, maybe some other 13 year old moron will read this and see how stupid it all is.

Good luck.
I bet that your in your 20s and had sex under the age of consent and probably your partner took a part of you that you can never fill with any one else and are answering these questions try to help people that made the same mistake

i'll check and see what you say in the morning.
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Jun 18, 2012, 07:01 PM
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I bet that your in your 20s and had sex under the age of consent and probably your partner took a part of you that you can never fill with any one else and are answering these questions try to help people that made the same mistake
I'm 41. I was molested from the time I was 5, for many years. I've been with my husband for 22 years. I was in therapy because of the molestation. I was also raped when I was 18.

Any more stupid comments you want to make, or do you really think you're wiser than I am? I've been there, done all of that. Ya, I had sex underage, because I didn't give a damn about myself, due to the molestation as a child. Just like your girlfriend!

Any more stupid comments you want to make?

If you have half a brain, you'll read what I just wrote and realize that I know a lot more about your girlfriend then you do. I know what it's like, and I know why she's sleeping with you. It isn't love. In fact, it's hate, for herself!
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Jun 18, 2012, 07:50 PM
Given all that he has posted, I am saying this is all just BS and he's a troll. This can't be real and it seems that it's only done to get reactions from us.

Ok little guy, go outside and play now. There's a whole world out there waiting for you.
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