I have a 4-year-old boy without being taken care of by any other people. We both work almost each weekday. What's more, we don't know how to teach our kid well, for we both have bad temper. Therefore, we are trying to send him to a boarding kindergarten, but cannot find a decent one.

Do you think I can do this? And what should we do?

petertime

Thank you so much. All ideas and suggestions you kindly give me are considerable and vital important. However, why we can find so many parents in Mianland China doing this --- pay much money trying to put their kids (4-6) into boarding kindergrtens? And they also love their kids, they want their kids to become great persons, to learn more and to be more independent.

danielnoahsmommy

a 4 year old is still a baby plenty of time to be independent. i also heard that in china parent send children to grandparent for at least the 1st year of life.

I think parents should raise the children they put into this world

Jesushelper76

Your just trying to pass off your non parenting to somebody else. Why are you not willing to take the responsibilities of being a parent. I think J9 is right. Time to put your child up for adoption and maybe the child will have a loving home with loving parents.

You both have tempers. Do you take your tempers out on the child? I think you both need help but not in child care.

I hope and pray that this child gets the love that the child needs.

Stringer

YOU say that you both have tempers. I would like to know how this has impacted on your child? Are you both constantly screaming and yelling at him/her?

Have you EVER HIT your child?

I am concerned that this child may be in danger.

By the way, no one has asked this question of you, do you love your child?

Stringer

moshimaggie

go ahead and send him if he doesnt like it take him out

justcurious55

just because there's other people doing it doesn't make it right!