It getting to be a routine
Hey everyone. I just wanted to put my situation out there and see what advice I could get. Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for about a year now, exclusively for the past 7 months. We love each other but lately things have been getting boring. We both go to school full time and both work a couple days a week. Even though were both busy we still find time for each other and see each other probably like 4 times a week. But I'm going to be honest, its starting to get boring. Example... there's usually a certain night of the week I'll go visit her a school and stay over and at first it was I guess cute or whatever but lately I've been thinking why do I go? She is very needy and wants to see me all the time. I've told her that its not possible cause were both so busy. And it's a struggle to see her as much as I do. And although this may seem selfish, sometimes I feel like I'm putting more into the relationship than I'm getting out of it.
I don't want to break up with her at all and we both love each other. But like I said it is getting boring for me and I can tell she probably feels the same way. As far as I know she doesn't want to break up either. We're both in our early 20's and I don't over contact her (usualy one of us will text the other in the morning saying have a good day and all that stuff, maybe sometimes during the day, and we'll talk at night before we go to sleep). And for those of you that know me I was getting over a bad breakup before me and the current girlfriend got together so I had problems letting my guard down which has been an issue for us, but lately I've been getting better. Anyway I just wanted to get some thoughts on the situation and maybe get some advice from people who've felt like this before. Thanks
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