[sallzsxc444]

This pretty cute guy keeps asking me out but I don't really like him in that way. I've been thinking about saying yes but I don't no what should I do?

[Clough]

Why would you want to say no, please?

[sallzsxc444]

What do you mean? I don't really know the guy and we only barely know each other because he's my ex's friend

[kayzsxc444]

Seems like some 1 I know..
Just don't worry if he is a really nice guy then give it ago take a chance.. and if it changes your life let it.. its for the best.
But if it doesan't turn out to good let him go.. but you will never know how things will turn out if you don't ever give any 1 a chance xx

[Clough]

How old are you and how old is he? How have you come to know him? School? Other way, maybe?

[kayzsxc444]

I'm 13 he is 17 he goes to my school... please answer my question?

[Clough]

im 13 he is 17 he goes to my school... please answer my question?

My question was for kayzsxc444.

I am aware of your question and your PM. Both of you please realize, that there are quite a few people on this site who would love to help you with your questions. The problem right now, is that some of them are asleep who would normally be helping to answer the questions like you have.

You will need to have some patience as far as having questions answered. Okay? :)

[sallzsxc444]

im 13 he is 17 he goes to my school... please answer my question?

Kay hunni this is my question not yours lol

[kayzsxc444]

Yes I understand I will be patient sorry I'm just really confused and I need advice now xx

[Clough]

kay hunni this is my question not urs lol

It's true that this post is about you.

[Clough]

yes i understand i will be patient sorry im just really confused and i need advice now xx

Okay. Understood! With your questions, please stick to your posts. Thanks! :)

[sallzsxc444]

Okay. Understood! With your questions, please stick to your posts. Thanks! :)

Got that dam right lol. Rnt u going to answer mine?

[Clough]

I am still waiting for an answer to my question below:

How old are you and how old is he? How have you come to know him? School? Other way, maybe?

Also, please refrain from cursing and try to use correct English spelling and grammar on this site, please? If you don't, you will confuse people. This isn't a chat room.

[sallzsxc444]

Sorry I just want to write quickly because I'm tired haha. I'm 13 turning 14 this Wednesday and he's 14. I'm in year 8 and he's in year 9 and we go to the same school. So what should I do he says he really really likes me but I don't know

[Clough]

Well, Happy Birthday in advance!! :) :p :D

Right now, you should be concentrating on your schoolwork. Relationships of any sort of serious nature can and will happen in a few years. If you just want to go out and have some fun, as long as you and his parent's know and approve of it, that might be okay. This is the way that most people do it. Best not to rush things as far as the steps in life. Please don't feel pressured to do anything because your friends say that it is okay to do them.

How about some group activities in which you both could be involved?

I would try to find out some more things about him through your friends and also maybe adults before getting involved with him, though. Best to be careful. I don't want to see you get hurt!

It could be that he will really be an okay guy. Just please don't get hung up on one person right now at your age. Please concentrate on the things that you need to do in order for you to advance as a person. That is the most important thing.