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I'm not giving up my dog, I love him to much and he's my companion, I take him everywhere. He makes me feel whole and happy. My daughter loves him dearly and they play together every day. He helps me find time out of my busy schedule to enjoy life, enjoy my daughter and be happy. The dog is not the problem here, the angry man is.
There is no way I'm letting go of that and even to suggest it tears me up inside. My dog is not only a pet but is my friend.
No my bf doesn't hit me, it's not like that. He just really really really hates my dog. I have made a stand and told him he either learns to tolerate and live with the dog or he's not living with me.
I am currently looking for an apartment as back up.
Bushg - I find you insulting to even suggest to get rid of my dog.
Wow, This is way more then I first read,
I ain't gonna beat around this Bush!
Jessyfay your as bad, if not worse then this man you married,
Your CONDONING it by allowing it to continue,
Wheres YOUR BRAIN!
If you gave a chit about this Dog as you so call claim,
You woulda gotta the poor thing out a long time ago.
Sorry but I don't feel bad for people who sat by and does nothing,
I feel sorry for the innocent victim you refuse to protect!
It's His Life thats gonna pay the ultimate price!
You said it yourself, (coming home and finding him dead!)
Stop being greedy & thinking of yourself, think of the VICTIM here!
The same goes for this Topic, You knew you was gonna do nothing when you posted it,
You was thinking of yourself, Pity , Pity, poor you,
you never intended on taking any of this advice given,
You won't give your dog up, And you love your man,
Guess the Dog has to pay for mum not having a heart big enough to sacrifice her own hurt in order to save HIS LIFE!
If someone stepped in my house and kicked one of my dogs or whatever else, Husband or not,
It sure as hell wouldn't take me a yr, week, Day or a stupid topic to know what the hell I'd do!
Sorry but I despise people who hurt innocent animals and those that sit by and DO NOTHING to stop it!
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Does your boyfriend do this to either you or your daughter? Is he verbally, emotionally, or physically abusive with you at all? If he is, you need to get yourself, your daughter, and your dog, out of that house. Now.
If, for whatever reason you can't leave, you need to find another home for your dog. Please Jessyfay. It is not normal behavior for a person to choke or kick a little tiny dog. You know this. You also know that what he is doing is illegal.
Jessy, this just doesn't make sense to me. Here on this website you beat people up verbally & defend the rights of all animals here. That dog is so small, tiny, and helpless. I don't understand how can you let this happen Jessy. It is very important for you to understand that if you are afraid that you will find him dead one day, then I can guarantee you that, if you don't get him out of that house, you will. I see this stuff all the time. People don't believe it can happen to them. Isn't this making your heart break for him Jessy? It is making mine break. You do work with rescues Jessy. You know that what your boyfriend is doing is illegal. Put yourself in the position of being on the outside looking in. What if you came across one of your neighbors doing this to their dog? What would you do? I KNOW that you would call the police or animal control. I KNOW that you would do everything possible to take the dog or cat out of their house. You have seen the result of cats being abused. How can you not see this? Please, please, please, get that poor dog out of that house now! Unless you have decided to split from your boyfriend, find a friend who can take your dog, or surrender him to a shelter. This all explains a lot as to why you have been having so much trouble with your dog. This is not going to get better or disappear on it's own. If your dog dies as a result of your boyfriend's abuse, that is a chargeable offense and the man can go to jail. Please, give this dog a chance at a having a normal life.
Have to spread the love Ruby. But i completely agree. I would say keep the dog but lose the guy, unless you are not ready to lose the guy. In that case KEEP THE DOG safe!!! Dogs are like children, they need protection....protect him. Heck send him my way!!
I'm not giving up my dog, I love him to much and he's my companion, I take him everywhere. He makes me feel whole and happy. My daughter loves him dearly and they play together every day. He helps me find time out of my busy schedule to enjoy life, enjoy my daughter and be happy. The dog is not the problem here, the angry man is.
There is no way I'm letting go of that and even to suggest it tears me up inside. My dog is not only a pet but is my friend.
No my bf doesn't hit me, it's not like that. He just really really really hates my dog. I have made a stand and told him he either learns to tolerate and live with the dog or he's not living with me.
I am currently looking for an apartment as back up.
Bushg - I find you insulting to even suggest to get rid of my dog.
Jessefay listen at yourself all you keep saying is what your dog does for you. What do you do for your dog that is what I want to know? You let some man beat him , he peeps and poops out of fear, you let him get choked and kicked and hit and smacked till your afraid that he will end up dead. I repeat what do you do for your dog? do him a favor and give him to a shelter where they can help him get over some of the abuse that your family has done to him I have a number for you if you will take it. Stop being selfish and do what is right by him.
Okay, people are getting a little irritated by this post now. How about we lay it out on the table for you.
Animal cruelty is punishable by law, by watching and letting it happen it makes you just as guilty as doing the crime. If you truly care about the dog, you will find a shelter or a family member to take him until you can figure out how to get out. It is best for the dog and your child. You don't want your baby to see a dog beat to death in front of her eyes one day, and you do not want to witness that yourself.
You would not even be asking this question if you did not seek validation for wanting to get out of the relationship. If this man can hurt an animal that you care about, how long will it be before he is laying his hands on you or your child? If he loved you at all, he would not treat your dog that way. I know for a fact, my husband does not particularly care for animals, yet we all peacefully co-exist. He loves me and my children, and now my pets too. He would never hurt them, because that would hurt me.
You act as though the dog is more important than him, yet you watch as this happens to him. You need to get your priorities straight and decide what you want to do, but you need to get the dog out ASAP.
I know that I am new here but you all seem to be awfully hard on this lady. Give her a chance to do what is right. Everybody deserves a chance. I am sure that she protects it the best that she can.
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