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Yes we have been together for 5 years and I recently got my dog about a year ago. He is a "cat person" I am an animal person I love all animals, I'm a vegitarian for pete's sake.
Anywho... Yes he hates my dog to the point where if my dog does something that pisses him off, like getting into the garbage when I'm not home. He'll beat the poor guy up. I've seen him choke my dog because my dog made an accident in our home.
His cats have peed on my dirty laundry sometimes and I never got angry.
I don't understand why he doesn't accept my dog as part of me.
What really bothers me is that he yells and calls my dog horrible names, my dog is soo terrified that he submissive pees and than he kicks him for peeing in the house. He's building a fear in my dog from all men. I'm scared that I'm going to come home and find him dead.
I don't know what to do. I want to leave, but we have a daughter together and I love him still.
I just wish there was a way for him to accept my dog. I'm putting my dog in obiedince boarding school for a week and hope it will grow his self esteem and build confindence. Hopfully when he sees my dog as a good well behave dog like I do than he'll accept him.
I think my dog on some level doesn't like him because when were out of the house and he didn't put him in his kennel. He has only pooed and peed and chewed his stuff. He's peed on his pilliow when he was a pup, Pooped in his car, never in mine. and pooped in his shoes. I think it's amusing, that's revenge for yah.
Does your boyfriend do this to either you or your daughter? Is he verbally, emotionally, or physically abusive with you at all? If he is, you need to get yourself, your daughter, and your dog, out of that house. Now.
If, for whatever reason you can't leave, you need to find another home for your dog. Please Jessyfay. It is not normal behavior for a person to choke or kick a little tiny dog. You know this. You also know that what he is doing is illegal.
Jessy, this just doesn't make sense to me. Here on this website you beat people up verbally & defend the rights of all animals here. That dog is so small, tiny, and helpless. I don't understand how can you let this happen Jessy. It is very important for you to understand that if you are afraid that you will find him dead one day, then I can guarantee you that, if you don't get him out of that house, you will. I see this stuff all the time. People don't believe it can happen to them. Isn't this making your heart break for him Jessy? It is making mine break. You do work with rescues Jessy. You know that what your boyfriend is doing is illegal. Put yourself in the position of being on the outside looking in. What if you came across one of your neighbors doing this to their dog? What would you do? I KNOW that you would call the police or animal control. I KNOW that you would do everything possible to take the dog or cat out of their house. You have seen the result of cats being abused. How can you not see this? Please, please, please, get that poor dog out of that house now! Unless you have decided to split from your boyfriend, find a friend who can take your dog, or surrender him to a shelter. This all explains a lot as to why you have been having so much trouble with your dog. This is not going to get better or disappear on it's own. If your dog dies as a result of your boyfriend's abuse, that is a chargeable offense and the man can go to jail. Please, give this dog a chance at a having a normal life.
I don't want to get rid of my dog, but my boyfriend hate him and told me the dog leaves or he leaves. Hmmm what would you do?
PS. I'm not going to get rid of my dog.....could you?
My Favorite quote of ALL TIME is: "Whoever said you cannot buy love, forgot about puppies" (or dogs) But I do not know who originally said it! Get rid of the boyfriend. Find a REAL MAN! Someone who likes dogs too! Anybody who wants to make you get rid of something/someone you love has the potential to be an abuser! KICK HIM TO THE CURB! And let him know why!
jessefay I have been looking at all of your post regarding this little doxie. please I beg you to please give this dog up it is not right for you or your family. I will try to help you find a rescue group for it. just maybe you all need cat's maybe you are just cat people. I know in your heart that you are frustrated with the dog , but for this poor little creature do the right thing and find him a home with a rescue that can handle his "problematic" behavior . you rescued him from that horrible pet store, now let someone who is has the experience and time to help him give him a chance . you have done all you can for this dog. be a hero and give him to a rescue
Jessefay you need to ask yourself Do I love my boyfriend of 5 years and the father of my child more than I love this dog. Many people will help you find a good place for your dog if you choose your boyfriend. It is up to you to decide, sounds like your boyfriend has already made his mind up, he just can not share his life with this dog.
While it is true you have struggled with the dog, I thought you made progress with it with help from Rubypitbull and I. In my initial post to this thread, I talked about finding a boyfriend you could make a long term commitment to, not realizing you had already been with him 5 years and bore a daughter. You haven't found the right one.
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