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Do dogs go through a "terrible twos"phase?

Asked Apr 15, 2009, 10:43 AM — 13 Answers
Please help me! I have had my pom for 2 weeks now and he is 7 weeks old. The first week and a half he was a gentle laid back dog who barely made a whimper. Now that he has gotten used to the family he is a lot more playful and animated which was cute at first. Now his teeth are coming in more and he is biting everything, even though he has 6 or 7 toys now and putting the toys in his mouth instead of what he is chewing on has not worked, he then goes to biting fingers, toes, whatever. He is alo peeing and pooping everywhere! I have newspaper laid out and sometimes he will go on it but most of the time it's the floor. And when I try to put him back on the paper or stop him from going on the carpet and carry him to the paper he throws a fit and starts wriggleing and biting and snapping at my hands. Then he starts to run off as fast as he can to keep me from getting him and putting him back on the paper. He also gets a little rough when playing and begins to growl at the kids and me and snap in a nonplayful way. I know the person I got him from gave him away too early(at 6 weeks) but I didn't know anything about that until after I got him - about the socializtion he needed from his siblings. What can I do?

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Apr 16, 2009, 09:31 AM
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He is such a cutie! It must be like my Chihuahua puppy. Small dogs are often too smart for their own good. They are sometimes so cute and easy to pick up that they aren't trained well. A mistake we owners can easily make is to pet (reward) a dog when it jumps up, putting it's paws on us. You wouldn't allow a Great Dane to do that, Poms are dogs too.

I put mine in the bathroom, he peed all over. So I papered the entire floor. Removing sections of paper has taken several months, but now he mostly uses the paper, in the one spot. My puppy had run of the living room...Not good! He loves to poop on the carpet.

So, we put up a baby gate. Only a small part of the carpet is available to him and he quit pooping on it. Now, when he is in the living room, he is constantly supervised. No accidents.

He got snarky and snapped and growled too. A friend of mine who trains dogs, showed me to put him on his back when he does that. A dog on his back is submissive. You, who put him in that position are now in charge. Putting a 2-3 pound pup in his place, submissive to you can be emotionally hard, especially when he's just playing.

Roughousing and allowing him to bite teaches him that it is acceptable to do so. You must show him what is okay and what isn't by "speaking dog." An older dog will growl and gently knock him down. Sometimes the lesson needs to be repeated over and over.

If he is running away from you when you try to put him on the paper, limit how far he can run. My Chihuahua is both fast and smart, cornering him is often necessary. Treats or petting can be used to let him know that your approach is positive and not always corrective.

Give us an update sometime. Best of luck.
Thanks for all the good advice, I will keep it in mind and keep you posted!
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Apr 16, 2009, 09:39 AM
The dog food sounds very good, good choice
I'm glad he adjusted to being being the baby gate so quickly, my little ones took along time to adjust as I have a similar set up at my house.

There has been discussion on here before about disciplining dogs with fly swatter and smacking them. Now... When I say this, I DO NOT want negative comments directed at me this is my training tactic and you don't have to like it.
In general training I never smack my dogs, I only reward good behavior.
But with bad habits such as barking at imaginary things, jumping on people or stealing food they get 2 harsh "NO"'s and I indicate what the correct behavior should be and if they don't get the hint they get a soft smack on the rump.

I'd also like to add that my partner doesn't discipline our dogs I am the only one that does it and they could care less if he left the room but if I even go to the toilet I have them sitting outside the door crying for me.
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Apr 16, 2009, 09:55 AM
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The dog food sounds very good, good choice
I'm glad he adjusted to being being the baby gate so quickly, my little ones took along time to adjust as I have a similar set up at my house.

There has been discussion on here before about disciplining dogs with fly swatter and smacking them. Now... When I say this, I DO NOT want negative comments directed at me this is my training tactic and you don't have to like it.
In general training I never smack my dogs, I only reward good behavior.
But with bad habits such as barking at imaginary things, jumping on people or stealing food they get 2 harsh "NO"'s and I indicate what the correct behavior should be and if they don't get the hint they get a soft smack on the rump.

I'd also like to add that my partner doesn't discipline our dogs I am the only one that does it and they could care less if he left the room but if I even go to the toilet I have them sitting outside the door crying for me.
I hear yeah! My pup is under my feet at all times. When the kids come home he wants to play and he is so good with them and vice versa and when my husband comes home from work he wants to play and he follows him around a little but he's not like he is with me. It reminds you of when your kids were small and you felt like you were always stepping on them, yeah know?! It just becomes natural to look down at your feet before you take a step lol I think your way of dicipline sounds good but I'm afarid to pop my pup on the backside with my hand because he is so small. With the fly swat I can control how hard I pop him and it's very lightweight so I know I'm not popping him too hard, just enough to get the point across. I wasn't going to "spank" him at all because he is so small and cute but I soon realized I had to do something because he was running the house at 7 weeks lol! I still use the firm "no's" and don't always have to get the fly swat, it's just persistance, persistance, persistance. Please don't mistake me for an abusive pet owner - I promise you I'm not! I've never even spanked my kids! They may have had 2 or 3 spankings their whole life and they came from my husband! I am just not wired that way and feel with them talking, time-out and taking privilages away work better than physical punishment. It's even harder to dicipline my new pup because of his size and his cute little face. Man, oh man is he going to rule me or what?! I read somewhere that poms are smart enought o be manipulative by a ceratin age with their owners, have you ever heard that? Any interesting facts about the pom breed you might want to share?
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Apr 16, 2009, 04:49 PM
My pup growled when I put him on his back at first. Now he rolls over when I say no. They are such quick learners. If the flyswatter works, and you don't hit but tap, good. My parrots quit yelling at me now, as soon as I put my hand on the squirt bottle. Have you tried a squirt bottle? Some dogs like water so much that it isn't effective. With others, it's a painless way to put an exclamation point on the word "no."

Yes, I saw the dog whisperer handle a biting, growling Chihuahua with the on-the-back method. He pushed the little dog down with a hand on its neck. Your Pom may respond better to other methods.

Just try not to reward unwanted behavior.
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