Should I leave

Krs · Nov 8, 2006, 12:48 AM

Why is he your ex husband in the first place?

aromero565 · Nov 8, 2006, 12:51 AM

He moved out of town to work so long distance drifted us apart and now he's back

Krs · Nov 8, 2006, 12:57 AM

So just because you drifted apart you married another man?
I need more information really to help you out more.

aromero565 · Nov 8, 2006, 01:05 AM

He was out of town for two years and called it quits within six months that he was gone. We both decided to end it. We do have a daughter together that's why we keep in touch. While he was gone I moved on. So I met another guy now my husband in college. My first husband came back and we've been keeping in touch and realized I still loved him.

Krs · Nov 8, 2006, 01:09 AM

Tricky situation...

You think this throuoghly before you take an immediate action.
Think about the pros and cons.

Does your ex feel the same about you?

aromero565 · Nov 8, 2006, 01:13 AM

He does feel the same but I do have a good marriage. That's why its so hard

aromero565 · Nov 11, 2006, 12:50 AM

I've been married for about 2 yrs now and have been wanting to leave my husband. We just had a baby 3 wks ago so that's making it harder. We fight all the time and it is usually my fault because I start them. Other than that he doesn't help with the baby often and gets mad when I don't want him to go out with his friends. I'd rather him stay here with me and baby. I want to leave and get a divorce but I can't seem to get my foot out the door. I realized I must not love him unconditonally if I think like this. I'm always trying to look for ways to leave him.

Fr_Chuck · Nov 11, 2006, 05:21 AM

Ok, the honey moon is over and there is no white knight on a horse.

In general what both of you need is counseling to work out the differences.

ordinaryguy · Nov 13, 2006, 05:09 PM

Let's see, you start fights all the time and you want to leave him, but you want him to stay home with you. I'm sure there's more to the story, but just based on what you've said, I can kind of see why he might want to get away for awhile. You sound immature and confused. If you do leave him without getting your own head straight, you will most likely fall right into another relationship that brings you back to the very same issues. For the sake of everybody involved, I hope you make the effort to work out your issues in this relationship instead of the third, fourth, or fifth one after this. I realize this doesn't respond to the question you asked, but I think a better question would be "How do I get the courage to grow up and be a good mate and parent?"

Should I leave

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