| Twinks,
I understand your frustations so well. I also had very intrusive in-laws. The dynamics of married couples becomes much more difficult with them. However, it can be very enriching if you live with them your live very much. Try to stablish rules and ask them not to intrude unless asked for.
Regarding you wife, sorry man. I think you messed up... Don't say you are going to leave unless you intend to. You are sending mixed signals to her and becuase you mentioned you want things to work out. I would appologize, applogize 1MM time if necessary. Pick you battle man. Go clean up the hour, this is good work out anyways. Show to her you love her with actions. You'll see things will come back... |