my wife of 7 years wants a divorce. we have 2 precious babies together. we have been living apart for 3 months now, but every 3 weeks or so she wants sex from me. what can i do to make her want me back? i dont want any hole answers either. i just want to know if there are any tricks to this game. should i use the no contact thing?

lolalynne

I would say that no contact would produce either a black or white reaction. Either she will get so mad at you for not trying and force herself to get over the relationship; or, she will start to see what she is missing. Meeting you wife only for sex would seem to me like it is not helping the situation. I don't know why she wants a divorce from you, but I'm sure having only a physical relationship is not fixing the problem. Perhaps ya'll could meet in a more public arena for conversation if she requests to see you. Talk about your problems, talk about the weather, or just try to get to know each other again.
Hope some of that helps!

Fr_Chuck

First this is not a game, and there are no "tricks" This is a serious situation, and what you both need is marriage couseling.

talaniman

There is no tricks or games unless thats what your doing now and not enough info to say one way or the other if no contact will help you as I have no idea what you want. As I said a lot more info is needed.