Hello,

I am convinced that my hisband has some lose screws. He is becoming more dependent on me financially. Yes he lost his job in June and is making no effort to find work even if its off the books. I am 9 weeks pg. I aborted the other baby back in feb 2008 and I feel abortion is not an option right now.
I really thought he would change and get his act together but I am realizing, if I stay he will never.
My question is, would it be easier to divorce him before the baby or after I have the baby. Sigh... 'What have I gotten myself into' I feel by him feeling the need to impregnate me is his way of leeching on as a free financial ride. Ps I am scared of what's the best thing to do.divorce, Abortion or what.

Thank u.
Openpetal