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Asked Nov 9, 2007, 01:08 AM — 7 Answers
My wife and I have been going through a rocky patch for several months now. She has stated displaying some unusual behavior (going out a lot more, occasionally staying out for the night). When her mobile phone bill came in last month I had a shock to find it was

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Nov 9, 2007, 01:33 AM
I'm guessing your english from the use of £ rather than $, I will say hunn if the phones actually in your name and not your wife's then you can ask but I doubt very much they will give that kind of information to a normal citizen its usually only used in severe cases like dealings with the police.
As I say no harm in asking but I wouldn't hold your breath as I fear you will be peeing in the wind so to speak.
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Nov 9, 2007, 10:21 AM
I have heard of someone trying to get copies of internet activity and e-mails in the course of a divorce, I don't think it ever went past the judge, but they tried it. Maybe you can talk to a attorney about it, I have to agree with the post above I don't think you will get anything.

If the phone is in your name you could always shut it off, however that will only make her get on that you know nothing about.

You either trust your wife or you don't. If you don't then file for divorce.
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Nov 10, 2007, 09:02 AM
If she hasn't been disappearing, saying she is going somewhere and that isn't where she had been and so forth I wouldn't worry about it for now. Confronting only makes a cheater sneakier. So just keep watching her behavior until you have more concrete evidence.
She could be telling you the truth. If she actually IS seeing the guy and it isn't innocent
Quit paying her phone bill....for starters.
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Nov 10, 2007, 09:05 AM
Why not just take the mobile phone away from her?
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Nov 10, 2007, 09:14 AM
Or turn it off?
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Nov 10, 2007, 11:01 AM
The truth always comes out! I believe you can go in to her phone and bring up the sent text messages that were sent ... If she is deleting them that would make me wonder!
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Nov 16, 2007, 03:26 AM
[quote=tedlow]my wife and I have been going through a rocky patch for several months now. She has stated displaying some unusual behavior (going out a lot more, occasionally staying out for the night). When her mobile phone bill came in last month I had a shock to find it was
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