ok, firstly, consult your dentist (i was about to type doctor lol), tell him/her exactly what you told us now and then ask for advice. the dentist will most likely smile and say: "BRACES!!! MWAHHAHAH!!" (probably without the evil laugh tho) - but hopefully he/she won't, if he/she does, find another dentist.
secondly, the only reason your social life is having a down fall is because you are letting your problem with your gums ruin it for u. what i mean is, you are who you are and shouldn't let other people judge you, nor should you care if they do. i understand that, being 17, you
might believe that you have no life if you don't have a social life or that it is really
important to look good. the truth is, nobody really cares, except your friends and family of course.
continue your social life like normal while going to dentists for advice/help. another idea, and I dont know if you have done this or not, is to speak to your folks and see what they say.
you don't have to smile by showing your teeth, just raise the corners of your mouth - i personally hate smiling and showing teeth lol, i don't like it. makes me uncomfortable for sum reason
so, chin up, smile and be yourself
