hey simple question mayb hard answer

is suicide selfish

bushg

No I don't think it is selfish at all to them, but I can see how loved ones can feel like it is.

I have a cousin that hung himself and one of my dear friends shot himself.
I believe they were in so much mental anguish and had been in it for so long that they just wanted it to end.

I'm am just so sorry that they suffered like that...did they bring some of the problems to themselves, sure but only they know the things that happened to them that they could not share with anyone. I really hope it is as twinkiedooter says, that some day they will return only this time I hope their life is so much better.

Altenweg

I hope so too Bushg. Thankfully I only ever had the one suicide in my family, and I don't ever want to go through that again.

Bottom line, we all go through bouts of depression, and yes, sometimes it seems hopeless, I've been there, I know. But, and this is a big but, if you get help then more often then not you will be helped and those feelings will no longer be an issue.

OP, I think that now would be a good time to ask why you are asking this question.

clareybear89

in some ways it is
suicide isnt the only answer
i considered it not long ago,cause i felt i couldnt carry on,but with help from the hospital and my gp,they showed me ways of coping and ways people close to you can help,and believe me it has helped me sooo much.
just when your down or that just take the time u have to talk to someone and get the help u deserve
hope this helps